Seconded.
I call it a “selfish thing,” because really it is. Suicide is for the benefit, if you can call it that, of no one but the person committing suicide. Please do not consider that as being judged; it isn’t. I am well aware that there are times you can see nothing beyond the absolute anguish you feel. But suicide does not eliminate the problems it creates. It isn’t victimless. Many times people are left wondering why, because a large number of suicides don’t leave notes or explanations and many suffer in silence beforehand. Suicide takes care of the immediate problem of release from the pain for the person suffering. It doesn’t solve any of the problems the person was suffering from before, and it doesn’t bridge any of the deep gulfs that existed between that person and the people who loved that person. That is why I call it selfish. That doesn’t mean you have no right to be selfish; it’s your body and your life. Just that while some people may believe “the world, my kids, and my spouse will be better off…” most of those people will disagree.