That sounds snottier than I intended, so let me try to explain.
I think it’s pretty safe to say that each of us has a set of standards for what is right and what is wrong, and they’re not necessarily universal. In a perfect world, either we’d all agree or we’d live as we wish and accept that others will do the same. Our world is far from perfect, however, and I expect we frequently encounter people whose choices do not meet with our approval.
So, what do you do? It’s easy to say “Accept all individuals for who they are” but when faced with someone who you consider to be immoral or unsavory or undesirable, must you be PC?
I’m not going to offer specifics, because this could devolve into an argument of what is and isn’t socially acceptable, and that’s not what I want. And I’m not using the word “approve” as if I’m Commissioner for Approving All Things, but in a more personal sense. But whether it involves something illegal, immoral (by whatever your standards are), or distasteful, how do you deal with another person?
For myself, if I am repulsed by another person’s actions or lifestyle, I will avoid dealing with that person if at all possible. If I know something about someone before we meet, I may do what I can to keep from having to meet. Most difficult of all, if I find out something about someone I know, not gossip but fact, I am likely to break off the acquaintance.
I suppose there are those who would consider that to be narrow-minded or hyper-critical of me. I can’t socialize with or befriend a person who does things that I consider to be wrong - even if it’s something that “society” seems to condone. I’m not sitting in judgement in that I’m not suggesting that anyone who doesn’t conform to my standards is damned to firey torment for eternity. But I’m not going to subject myself to the company of anyone who I cannot respect - maybe that’s what it comes down to.
Is that petty? Or does that fall within my right to choose with whom I will associate for whatever reason? I think I’m pretty good at accepting people for who they are, but I don’t think that acceptance necessarily includes a relationship on any level.
Does that make sense? Do you think such a method of choosing friends/ acquaintences/ associates is fair and right? What do you do if you don’t “approve”?