Hey, Handy! Nice to meet ya!
Ahem…
<<<<<<<<Sure there is Voice. A true story.
A married guy who owned part of Carmel Valley Ranch went on a business trip. When he came home and went to bed he found a wet spot on the bed, tsk.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
So, his wife had an affair with another woman! Good for her! Sisterhood is powerful, and fun!
Kiss, kiss
The Voice
I notice no one has answered Nickrz’s third question, to wit: “Is the incidence of women who can achieve orgasm increasing?”
I have known a woman who thought she just couldn’t have an orgasm, but it was prolly at least in part due to, well, squeamishness ala “It’s bad to touch myself, and if I do, I can’t look or think about it too much or I’ll feel yucky.” And women who never explore are /much/ less likely to find it by accident, especially with an inexperienced (or lazy) guy.
I think more women orgasm nowadays because they are less afraid to work at it. And since around 2/3 of women can’t generally orgasm from intercourse alone, sometimes it takes a little work. The fewer men there are who balk at oral sex or finger-manipulation during intercourse, the fewer non-orgasmic women there will be.
(Yeah, I’m being heterocentric. I doubt lesbians have the same hang-ups as straight men.)
-Quadell