Bingo. It’s been since May 2000 for me.
I think “sex” is some sort of naked fun thing that single people do.
It would be interesting to know the ages of people posting in this thread.
It’s been somewhere around 6 years for me. (I’m 28.)
Seriously dude - you have *way *better things to be doing right now.
And in the interests of disclosure - last was Saturday night. Maybe, what? 35ish hours ago? Should rectify that this evening, but the Mr. has a cold and might not be up to it.
I should have been more clear that the fear of unwanted pregnancy was only one of several issues that have led me down the path I’m on.
Yes, I did think about getting snipped.
Ha! i just found this thread after lamenting my own sex life…
Just over 6 months. And it’s not as though I haven’t been trying!
Anyways, this thread makes me feel less abnormal than i had been feeling, so thanks…
The longest without for me was like three or four months max if even that long.
I thought I might have a claim as a non-virgin and 19 years, 5 months and 14 days as of today (last time was my 17th birthday) and honestly I’m sorry that there are those who have me beat. Being alone really sucks.
Yes, it surely does, it’s like living in the center of an infinite black void. I still have you all beat. :(:(:(
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I am sorry, to live in the same house with someone who should be your best friend and no emotional connection with them is tragic. It destroys the soul, I have a similar situation with a a family member, a brother. It is killing me.
Virgin, 20 years old. Already lost, but I’m here for the pity party.
Heavens, where did you get that idea? I am not at all satisfied with my predicament–lord knows I’ve whined about it often enough in various thread over the years… I’d love to start proceedings, but I have two issues:
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He just lost his dad in July. (ok, really only one issue–see the next one)
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He lost his job in February.
Not to highjack a sex thread, but there is no way I’m paying him alimony. Not after what he’s put me through… and with that cryptic remark, I’ll shut up (no, I’m not going to tell more). We are civil to one another.
So, since I have come to dislike intensely physical “intimacy” w/o emotional intimacy, I don’t have sex. I am no fan of porn, but I have a rich fantasy life. He likes porn (probably better than sex), so he seems fine with this. I don’t really care if he’s not fine with it, actually…
I am 47.
Ah, I gotcha. That makes more sense, although it sounds like a shitty situation to be in, as I’m sure I don’t have to tell you. I hope eventually it gets better, one way or another.
(Sorry for hijack!)
I don’t have an exact count, but it’s been 14 or 15 years.
These are eerily similar to my own experience this weekend: Get laid Friday night, then a few more times ending on Sunday. 
Coming up on a month, I think. Divorce is going to be…interesting.
The longest spell in my life was about two years, I think.
I’m 34.
You must have had a very interesting childhood…
Glad to find I’m not the winner, but I’m sure in a high percentile. It’s been 30 years.
Nowhere near winning, but the last time was 2 years ago this weekend.
Longest dry spell was somewhere in the neighborhood of 6 years.
Female, age 40, never been married. So much for “sex is something single people have.” :: sad sack ::
Or, there were reasons why it did happen and you remember those and backwards map—gee, I think it was that time we went to <x> and that was in July and… It’s not like the exact duration pops into one’s mind as soon as the question is asked. Or, at least not this person’s mind.