Here’s what just appeared about a week ago-
Male, adult but not middle aged yet.
Deaf. The term Handy refers to sign language.
He’s a corker, but such a regular fixture, non-mean, harmless, and in fact loved by many, distressingly off-topic to some, but most of his non-fans just know to skip his wilder posts.
Judging by the responses a post of his usually gets, as well as the demand by quite a few Dopers for more posts, I would have to say the answer here is Cecil Adams.
JFTR, handy himself has said that his username does NOT refer to sign language. Rather, to use his own words, it is because he is “handy around the house”.
In fact, as I understand it, handy is not the world’s most proficient ASL user.
Anyway, ignore those numbers. They’re wrong anyway - everyone knows that I have the highest real post count.
I ain’t no grammarian, but in that sentence isn’t “who” sorta linked to “is” – a form of the verb to be, which is always “nominative” (to use your fancy expression)? “Who” is only sort of “objective” (to use another of them-there fancy words) WITHIN the clause (“who you saw”), which from my understanding just don’t matter. Conclusion: “He is who you saw” is just fine. No? Wait a minute. Perhaps I got this backwards. “I gave the ball to him” is undoubtedly correct, but “I gave the ball to he who is tallest” is also correct even though in both sentences the third-dude singular is the same. In the latter, however, “he” (the ball recipient) is also all tied up there with the verb to be (“is tallest”), so it’s nominative, right? Oh damn, I swear I used to know this shit. Someone help. In my work it’s real important that I not fuck up over such matters, so everytime I encounter a situation I am unsure of, I just write around. The solution usually comes in breaking a sentence into two or more shorter and simpler sentences.
Wait. I think I was right the first time: The who/whom thing ain’t even necessary:
“It is he you saw” or “It is him you saw”?
Definitely the first. No doubt.
Another example:
“Ding-dong”
“Who’s there?”
“It’s me”
WRONG
Should be “It is I,” seeing as how “is” is a form of the verb to be (not that I’d get all upset or anything if you said “me”)
OK, it’s time to hear from someone who actually KNOWS.