Some thoughts:
–I have a lot of women friends. They never, ever rag me or each other about their weight. I would also never go up to someone and tell her to lose weight. That’s fucking rude. We have been known to comment on people who are flagrantly dressed badly or unflatteringly, but this is not confined to people who are overweight by any means.
–Some of my friends are “bag of antlers” thin, some are normal, and a couple are overweight, but they all think they are fat. I think this is terrible because they are all beautiful and, no matter how they look naked (I don’t have THAT information), they look good in the clothes they choose to wear.
–Almost all my female 7th grade students claim to think they are fat. Very, very few of them are, but they point to things like a round belly as proof.
–My BMI is 25; however, considering my build, which is stocky, and my bust size, which is large, and my age, I’m in the 35th percentile, which makes me slightly above average in thinness. So I’m not sure what a borderline fat BMI but top 35% thinness for my build and age would indicate about the accuracy of the BMI. I think I could lose 10-15lbs. My boyfriend says no.
–Angelina Jolie is an attractive woman. A lot of what makes me think she is beautiful is her face. She also has a nice chest. However, her arms and her legs are too thin. It’s not that they don’t have fat on them that makes them unappealing; it’s that they have no muscle. There’s like sticks in that they don’t widen at all as they get closer to the torso, and that’s not attractive to me. Does not detract from the beauty of her face and torso, though.
–The covers of Maxim and those type magazines are airbrushed all to hell. No real woman in the world is that flawless.
–erie774, you are a sweetheart.
–VCNJ, I think you look great in your pictures.