What does this mean? Rich peeps?
Generally - obv. exceptions, and plenty in semi-denial - if you haven’t got a relatively (to their social class) decent income or some kind of assets you may as well be a flat-chested skank. Really, what would be the point of that.
But they’ll never, ever, ever tell you that.
Ah, the secret to scoring with chicks is sincerity. They love sincerity. Once you learn how to fake sincerity convincingly, you’re in like Flynn.
Not just “rich”. But paying a lot more attention to social status, coming from the right family, stuff like that. Almost like a throwback to the Antebellum era. Balls and cotillions and shit.
My Maserati is up on blocks behind the barn, so we will have to take my truck. What time should I pick you up ? :eek:
Its not women, and its not Southerners. It’s just that the average person is…average. They naturally want to be in whatever “normal” prevails, and most people don’t have any trouble doing that, because they are normal.
If you’re not, more power too you. It comes with gifts and curses, but going through life with a sense of resentment is the latter, not the former.
Most people don’t want “average”. You don’t see too many women put on their dating profile:
“Looking for 5’10” 195 lb white male making $32k a year. Must have an associate’s degree or some college. So if you drink alcohol regularly, go to the doctor twice a year, and enjoy eating 2 snacks a day, call me on your cell or land line phone or email me on your desktop or laptop computer and we can stay up until a reasonable hour (you still need your 7 hours sleep) discussing how government’s number-one priority should be to help keep and create jobs in America!"
Turn-ons: Receding hairline and expanding waisteline.
Turn-offs: Doesn’t suggest threesomes with my friends and helps around the house.
They want what’s average to them.
The forums on Plenty of Fish have a wider demographic base than SDMB, and on it I’ve read “he’s perfect: drives a pick-up, takes my kids fishing, but his teeth are black and crooked. What should I do?”
While in the suburbs of Atlanta, the Buckhead Bettys are adamant that if they ever had sex in a bedroom that didn’t have a fireplace and lets into a bathroom suite with garden tub, they might as well be sucking trucker dicks out in the lot.
The OP’s problem, judging from all his threads taken together, is that he is very, very atypical for where he lives. And is prickly-proud about being different.
Which is another way of saying he’s constantly sneering at the typical locals. The female flavor of which resents being sneered at.
The answer is simple: Find a place where your interests and attitudes are mainstream. Move there. And still find that 95% of women your age don’t like you for a serious relationship. Just like 95% of everybody doesn’t like any given other person for a serious relationship.
But the difference between the 95%-against odds you’ll have in a good locale versus the 99.998%-against odds you have where you are now is a 2,500 to one improvement in your odds.
Move young man: you have nothing to lose but your celibacy & loneliness.
Op dude, I don’t think you are recognizing the opportunity that is presenting itself to you. You may be fishing in a smaller pond but you are positioned to be much more interesting bait to your quarry.
Well, I guess they would know.
Also has 25 (out of a possible 32) teeth and an IQ of 100.