Why can't you let them take their medicine? (closing of Pit threads)

Hmmm… that’s not quite exact, and I should have been clearer. I should have said “that’s not at all what Guinastasia was talking about”. uglybeech said that if pinkfreud had only mentioned that her husband was going to New Orleans to “help with psychological trauma”, nobody would have objected. You replied that people shouldn’t go there to “play therapist” unless there’s a “severe psychiatric emergency”. Guinastasia answered that the situation is indeed a “severe psychiatric emergency”, given that people are already starting to commit suicide. And you came back with your “so you don’t see the difference between people with actual psychiatric problems and whiners crying over their widdle pets” line, which is the strawman: Guinastasia and you weren’t talking about the pets anymore. When people living through a natural disaster are starting to commit suicide, it probably is the time for mental health professionals to come “play therapist”.

Agreed and agreed.

And on the subject of the OP–the “only the OP can request a thread be closed” thing is a custom, not a rule. Any poster can request anything they want. Whether they get laughed at or not is another story. Lynn already said that she chose the wrong message to copy in her closing statement. What more do you want? Lynn’s been doing this a long time, and I certainly trust her judgement on such matters.

Now, if you, davenportavenger, have something more you want to say to or about Shirley Ujest, why don’t you just go ahead and start your own pit thread? Provide a link to the locked thread, and explain your position.

Oh, you don’t want to do that? Why not? 'Cause it’s safer to jump into an existing shitstorm and start flinging than to try and start your very own shitstorm?

This is just how it works here, I suppose. Some people get flamed to oblivion; others lightly toasted, before being frantically extinguished.

Who said it was supposed to be a free-for-all anyway? I considered it an airing of grievances. It was tame.

As much as I hate pulling rank, anybody else notice that this thread talking about the good ole days of the Dope was started by a 2004er and is filled with 2000ers and 2001ers (no offense, severus. Great posts.) saying, “No, that’s not what the Pit was like at all.” Little things like that amuse me.

If davenportavenger let her subscription lapse as continuity eror then came back, screwing up her join date I’ll shut up.

Hey, davenport, flaming’s flaming and fun is fun, but there comes points in Pit threads where anymore flaming is just a waste of electrons. Wanta flame for flame’s sake? There’s plenty of places on the web where you can do that, just not here. Not ever in my experience.

By the by, I hate the way you abbreviate names without bolding them. SU? Syracuse University? WC? Water closet?

Blow me wimp. Just because you’ve screwed your life up so bad that you have to act like a tough guy on an anonymous internet message board is no reason to be such a bitch.

Dammit that’s not fair, I want to be pitted, and I want the thread to go on for years!!!

Erek