Not that it really matters now, but in this thread from when jally was around last July, jally said:
This would seem to answer the jally gender question, just in case she decides to return again next July.
Come on Esprix, go ahead and check again. I don’t think you really took enough time the first time. 
Well, I hope you are all proud of yourselves. You ran off jally…again. Now where am I going to get incoherent advice on wierd furniture, utensils, and how this board should really be run?
Huh?
:sniff:
Oh, jally, I will miss you.