Women do not dance to impress men. They dance for other women. There is a subtle competition going on.
Women do not dress up to impress men. They dress up to impress other women, then they all go to the bathroom together and talk about the way that skank Rosa is dressed. All of the time checking out each other. Again, competition that may not be obvious, but it is there, and all of the women know it.
We will never understand why.