I am an experienced ahem “swinger.” (Did I really just say that?) No, this doesn’t mean that I’m out and about looking for random encounters. My wife and I are VERY exclusive, and very picky, and only “play” with people we feel have become good friends, with whom we can enjoy ourselves outside of the bedroom. I’ve been involved in MFM, FMF, FFMFF, MMFMM, and any number of combinations. As such, I believe I’m qualified to speak to the subject.
Neither my wife nor I are bisexual, but I did not find any of the situations above unenjoyable. I suspect the first time or two with any of these combinations would’ve been awkward, had we not been with people who were already experienced in these situations. Apparently, it can be awkward when the parties are inexperienced, but as a straight male, I can say that, for me, it was neither awkard nor unpleasant - and typically, quite the contrary!
In answer to the OP, I want it because I can have it!
I think it’s a better fantasy than a reality. I couldn’t do it. Regardless of what my BF was thinking, I would be wondering is he having more fun with her??? And honestly if he climaxed in her I’d be angry. We could talk about it & fantasize together about it, but it is NEVER gonna happen. But I’m female & this was a question for the men…
Five is probably too many. They could overpower you and do some really bad things to you. Next thing you know, you’re lost in Baton Rouge without your wallet or your pants.
I’ve never had the FFM threesome, though I have had a few MMF ones. It seems to me that the problem with the FFM combo is that either the guy has to have remarkable skill and endurance, or the women must be bizexual, for everyone to get full enjoyment out of the experience. I’d love to give it a shot, but I fear that unless the women are into each other as much as me, at least one of them is going home dissapointed.
A MMF threesome, on the other hand, merely requires that the men be sufficiently secure in their sexuality not to run screaming at the sight of another man’s penis. They can attend to the woman simultaneously or take turns, as the situation and agility of the participants warrents.
A four-or-moresome has always sounded like fun to me, but it’s hard enough finding a willing and likeable third for a threesome, let alone a fourth through whateverth for an orgy.
