You know, when I first read this thread, I foolishly assumed you were female and were complaining about the males.
But, I now sympathize with you entirely. I don’t blame you one bit for being pissed off. I would be pissed off too. I can’t understand why a spouse would side against you like that. It sure would have ruined my vacation as well. I surely would not have felt at all friendly to her for the rest of that trip.