Well, it has been almost a year since my last post, and I have decided to fall off the wagon, at least for a short time.
Last semester in my Japanese2 class, I became friends with with this girl named Kat. Cute, smart, a lit major, really really easy to talk to. She also has more Manga and comic books than I. So in preperation for the final we get together at her house to study. After the final we bumped into eachother at the Funcoland. I was ther to pick up X vol.5, so was she. We cant get the dvd becasue UPS is slow, so we go next door and eat lunch, then we walk around the mall waiting for UPS.
So we talk on AIM all the time, and she gave me the address to her website and I do some exploring. She is a talented writer, but her topics usually center around Yaoi/Yuri themes. I then find a link to her live journal, In a fit of boredom I start reading it.
Turns out she is bi, and apparently not into guys at the moment, she did not tell me this, it is what I read. What should I do? And NO i would not be interested in watching her with a friend, OR joining in.
I guess thats all. not so mundane, kinda pointless, and i felt like sharing
I’ll go out a catwalk here and advise you that, given that she’s bi and “not into guys”, you should probably forget about becoming involved in a relationship with Kat. (not anything wrong with being bi-sexual, don’t start throwing darts at me, you guys).
I simply believe that you should pursue women who want to be with you. Look around and you shall find them! Good luck.
Stop giving Texans such a good name, Blonde! Most Texans would have told him to drag her out to a local bull riding bar and show off his skill fist fighting with the locals in order to impress the little filly.
I was just wondering, since she is very open, what possible reason would she have in not telling me? It hasnt come up in conversation (although we did have a little discussion about Chasing Amy at lunch) I suppose she could just be a tease, but hey what do I know? I am really dense when it comes to relationships.
That would be the West Texans (I’ll take that back immediately, I was already beat to a bloody pulp for calling Fort Worth dwellers “hicks” in another post).
Love ya, Zenster – and I stand not by my man, but by my advice to the OP - pick another filly!
Full moon on the rise tonight…
So how would having a conversation about a bi-sexual character necessarily lead to a revelation about her personal life? I have a degree in English. I enjoy talking to people about fiction. Not many of the people I talk to about fiction know I write it as well as read it. Writing is a far “safer” revelation, with fewer worries about people’s reaction, so I’m having difficulty understanding why her not bringing it up while discussing a movie is so surprising given we hold back on revealing much smaller things all the time.
Perhaps change yoru attitude “why is it always me” come on. THe universe isn’t out to fuck you and only you. (perhaps I’m just appalled at this more because I just finished reading how a doper here is battling with cancer, and even he didn’t act like a victim)
I’m sure you have met several males who like comic books, are easy to talk to… etc etc but you didn’t feel sorry for yourself because they were men, and people you arent sexually interested in. Just see it the same way. A friend who you aren’t going to have sex with.
