TLR: I will not tolerate personal attacks on a train, I will not tolerate personal attacks on a plane, I will not tolerate personal attacks on a message board post, I dare say I would not tolerate personal attacks on my toast… etc.
Is there a child-psychologist in the house?
This made me laugh.
Seriously. It’s funny.
Then don’t make personal attacks back.
Ice Wolf, your patience is to be commended, and rewarded with assorted fruit juices, floating in which are tiny umbrellas made of toothpicks.
Gadfly: I only gave back what was given to me.
I said I don’t tolerate being personally attacked at all. Thus, if someone personally attacks me, I reply in kind. Is it that hard to make a connection such as that?
Good Lord
grow up… I’d paddle the ass of my kid acting that way, me boyo.
And before you tell me to fuck off let me say I already got some tonight. 
Kurdt, you’re a fucking hypocrite, dude. Personal attacks? She gave you some fucking advice, man.
Remember the adage: Wise men don’t need advice. Fools don’t take it.
I don’t mind ass paddling. My girlfriend used to do it all the time, and I enjoyed it.
The more you know
SPOOFE: She personally attacked me. I gave as she gave. I don’t care about her advice, it’s just regurgitated advice that I’m already taking, but with her personal spin on it.
Well, to be fair, she is a blonde.
Cite what you consider to be the “personal attack”, Kurdt. Don’t give us YOUR summary… quote HER EXACT WORDS in this thread that you consider a personal attack.
“This not the appropriate way to vent your personal angst, night after night, Kurdt Kobain.”
Personal attack, in no way related to the OP.
Anyone else visualising a heavily armed Cat-in-the-Hat locked in a bunker somewhere writing out his manifesto? 
Thanks, mate. It’s hot as Hades here in Auckland right now. Could do with that juice, ta.
Kurdt, at least I tried. If you’re going to see every criticism and comment as a personal attack, there’s no hope.
You still over-reacted. Defending yourself and your position is one thing. What you did was something else, and has only served to fuel the fires of those lined up against you.
Be strong. But be noble with that strength.
Well, if nothing else, this at least ensures this thread belongs in the Pit!
Not to be so bold as to actually get BACK to the OP, but I’d like to possibly suggest that the specific genders of the people in each position may play a part. Let me quote something that George Carlin once said:
“News note: On TV recently, a guy was complaining that he was sexually ‘abused’ by a female teacher when he was a boy. He said she touched him and made him touch her in their private parts. Yeah? So? Where’s the abuse? Maybe I’m twisted or something, but as a child, I would’ve been willing to kill for this kind of special attention. I’d have had my hand in the air all day long. ‘Teacher! I need some more of that special help!’ It would have really lent a stimulating new perspective to the idea of staying after school.”
Does anyone really think that the OP was, “venting his own personal angst”? I mean sure Kurdt was a little over the top in his reply, but he was right, and now everyone is attacking him which is only going to get someone more angry.
[Trying to avert the Train Wreck in progress. Probably no use, but anyway…]
I came into this thread hoping to see some real reactions to the point the OP made, rather than to the OP. I know he’s had some trouble here before, but I though he made an excellent point this time - why doen’t anyone seem to be addressing it?
My 2 cents - yes, the unequal treatment here is unfair, but unlikely to change. Maybe it has something to do with the way male/female sex works, physically, and how are cultural mores reflect that - the boy is not seen as having been violated, because his body was not prodded and entered by a hard meat stick… Reactions would be very different, probably, if she took a dildo to his ass :eek:
Yes, very graphic, but probably a valid description of how many people will be thinking about this situation. 
Dani
P.S. - kurdt, yes you are over-reacting… sometimes it makes no sense to react to stupidity; it just puts you down into the same league. It’s a good OP you made, you should have been busy getting people back on track instead of aiding and abetting the fighting…
Ah, the joys of simulpost!! Superdude and sketch both beat me to it !!
Dani
I liked the part where you responded to Blonde’s advice not to vent personal angst by venting personal angst.