Do you think we’ll ever get past lazy people who won’t write/start their own threads, but will manage to dig up other people’s threads from decades past?
We know its an old thread. Posters aren’t brilliant for just Googling threads and posting to them. :rolleyes:
Sorry, don’t know why if someone has something to say they can’t at least try to string their own words together and start something new.
“Enough sex.” What a concept!
Sex hasn’t changed…
…neither has ink.
I feel I need to chime in here.
I “know a guy” who’s not very sexually experienced and never had an orgasm with sex alone, (he ‘needed a hand’ after every sexual encounter he’s ever had.) The best orgasm he’s had was alone. He’s still trying to understand his relationship with sex, and perhaps it’s because he always used condoms to be safe, or perhaps he just needs more practice, or maybe he’s never been with the right woman.
I know this guy very well… like the back of my hand.
I’d say he’s desensitized himself from normal sex with porn.
This person tells me that he gets just as much out of his imagination than he does with porn.
It’s much more complicated than desensitizing. It seems, in his limited experience, that he can barely “feel” sex. He’s also got a limited sex drive due to medication he’s on.
From this particular male POV, it’s pretty simple:
Being intimate with a woman is sexually arousing. Why? Because it’s how most of us guys, including me, are hardwired.
Pornographic photos and videos, or the fantasies my imagination can conjure up, are nice, but they’re still hardly the same thing as the actuality of a live, warm naked woman right there with you who’d like to do pleasurable things together with you.
One is the image or the fantasy, the other is the real deal that the image or the fantasy is about. So sex > masturbation.
ambiguities of language.
i don’t think that concept could be real.
substitute “lots of experience with” for “enough”.
Are you complaining about the revival or the comments that the thread is a Zombie?
I very much appreciate it when somebody comments that the thread is a zombie. I’m not very interested in replying to comments that are years old.
Yeah, but think of how young and CUTE some of these posters were back in '03.
Me too. I hate wasting time reading along thread and then composing a thoughtful response only to find that I’ve embarrassed myself once again by addressing and eight-year-old problem.
The zombie jokes at least can save me from the embarrassment part. :o