Who has better orgasms, climax’s, release of sexual frustrations?
Men or women?
I think men have a stronger release with the ejaculation of sperm being a sign of pent up physical and psychological emotions, but hey I’ve never been a woman either.
Who has better orgasms, climax’s, release of sexual frustrations?
Men or women?
I think men have a stronger release with the ejaculation of sperm being a sign of pent up physical and psychological emotions, but hey I’ve never been a woman either.
From what I hear, women can ejaculate too. I dunno.
In my experience as a dude, it make take a woman longer to get going, but they’ve got momentum to them. When I cum, it’s whatever - it feels good, but it’s just sort of done. But women’s seem to last a hell of a lot longer and have a greater effect on them. And then with just a little break you can get a woman up and going faster than it took you to get her horny the first time. And after that orgasm, you’ve gotten so much momentum in her you’re basically gonna get raped for the rest of the night. For me, it’s really more about dealing with my horniness than it is about the orgasm. My horniness interferes with my day to day life, so it’s something I have make sure I deal with in my off time. I’ve just gotta have sex sometimes or it’ll invade my thoughts. But I think about sex a hell of a lot more than I do actually having it. And actually I think I enjoy thinking about sex more than I enjoy having it, too.
So maybe it’s just that I’m some sort of amazing lover or something, but it seems like women have a more enjoyable time in bed than the menfolk do. And certainly as far as how much pleasure they get from the orgasm itself - I mean, it’s a grunt and then I roll over thing for me. Some women’s orgasms seem to go on for ever.
For men, easier during sex. For Women, easier elsewhere. They (women) can orgasm while attending a board meeting with just their legs crossed.
Conclusion: a tie.
I have a few times had to hold onto a woman as she writhed through an orgasm lasting a minute or more. I can’t imagine! What a wonder of nature! I don’t know if I ever would regain the power of speech if I came like that. I go with Homer on this question, Marge has ten times the fun!
Actually, my best friend called me up once because he was having a terrible week. He was very embarrassed to tell me this, but apparently he was having sex with his girlfriend and she just sort of lost consciousness during orgasm. Like, was out cold for a few minutes. When she woke up she had clearly sustained some kind of brain injury and for days after was slurring her speech and sleeping a bunch. She didn’t hit her head or anything, but she also completely refused to see a doctor. My friend who is a neurotic mess anyway with women, of course now has a complex that he almost killed a woman with his evil penis. I remember having looked that up after him telling me that and - while exceedingly rare - cumming yourself unconscious (and not just sleepy) is a thing that exists in the literature and it did look like it was all women being reported. So there’s that.
A mid life woman at her peak who has multiple orgasms has better Os than men. Don’t ask how I know this.
i hear men have it better, but women can have multiple in a short period so i guess it works out
Since I am not the one screaming enough to rattle the windows, I think its her.
I have good ones every time, sometimes they’re really good.
My wife has a few levels.
1- enjoying the act, feels good.
2- The Moaner, what she calls a mini-O.
3- when I really work on her, she has a Screamer. It wears her out.
Totally anecdotal, and the sample size is two people, but there ya go.
My orgasms are the best of all. I am a man. Ergo, men’s orgasms are better.
Women are capable of some truly amazing, jaw-dropping displays of orgasmic release; when its really good, its not a single, awesome orgasm but rather a constant series of ever-escalating orgasms that will finally climax with a massive, body-shaking O. Its really a thing of beauty, when it happens. So im going with women. I sure wish i could orgasm like that.
In one of my college psych classes, I remember a survey that was given for everyone to fill out. We had to try to determine by the description of an orgasm whether the person describing it was male or female. It was a list of probably 20 descriptions, a few sentences long each. The conclusion was, after the whole class turned in their guesses, that orgasms felt the same for men and women. No single description was agreed on as male or female, and once the gender was revealed, a lot of the majority answers were wrong.
Personally, in my experience as a woman, I think female orgasms may be very similar to men’s, but since I can have six in ten minutes, mine are better.
Psst: They’re faking it.
Psst: No, not all of us are.
The blind Greek seer Tiresias having been gender-swapped by Hera for interfering with snakes boning (it made sense in context, I guess) experienced both. According to him/her, the female climax was the more pleasurable.
God comes to Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden, and says he has two gifts left over from the creation of the universe that he is going to split between them. He asks, “Which of you would like to be able to pee standing up?”
Adam immediately jumps up and says, “Me, me, me! I want that! *Please *let me have that!”
God says, “But you don’t know what the other gift is.”
Adam says, “I don’t care. I *really *want to be able to pee standing up!”
So God turns to Eve and says, “Okay, then. I guess you get to have multiple orgasms.”
Women. No doubt.
That’s true. Not when they’re with me.
To the women who say their orgasms are better:
Have you ever masturbated…
while driving?
Apologies for whoever I stole that from.
Sorry I don’t buy it. I totally agree women seem to enjoy theirs more based on their facial expressions and vocalizations. I don’t get why even some shy women - who know I am totally open minded - who don’t request anything special during sex - have no problem screaming their brains out so loud the neighbors can hear. Anyway - I am glad they seem to be enjoying it.
Body tension, facial expression, vocalization - women certainly take the cake (well I haven’t had sex with any men [yet - if things don’t get better I might try and go gay]). That being said - the things guys will do for sex - compared to women - just doesn’t seem like we are in the same ball park. I am trying to compensate for the ease that women have of getting laid - as well as societal pressure but it is a little hard to do.
I wouldn’t mind being a woman for a day to feel it. I have wondered if it feels similar to a when I guy cums without ejaculating. This has only happened to me a few times, and while novel - and still pleasant - the lack of fluid made it probably 1/5 as pleasant.
Sexual behavior isn’t the same as sexual pleasure. Women are averse to public displays of sexuality for a variety of reasons - I think there may even be an inborn behavior tendencies that keep us as the pursuers and they the harder-to-get-gender. They also engage in less risky behavior in general to begin with. And I the only person I ever met who said they had masturbated while driving before was a woman. Women could even be less kinky than men (though I don’t think it’s fair when 90% of all kinky things seem to be the things that are less comfortable for them than for us - and on top of that, I have yet to have a girlfriend who was anything near prudish). I do think women’s sex drive is less than men’s at least earlier in life, which has to do with that revving them up speed thing I mentioned earlier. Though I have read that women’s sex drive and ease at which they can orgasm keep going up long after men have started to calm down sexually. But none of that speaks to whether they are enjoying sex more or less than men.
And as far as that fluid thing is - it’s all in your head. Ask anyone who’s had a vasectomy. Orgasm pleasure has nothing to do with fluid.