I am a former member of the Elks, although I never served as an officer and I attended meetings irregularly. I found the Elks Club to be a good place to have dinner, and a better place to drink. I enjoyed hanging out there on a Sunday afternoon, playing cards and shooting pool. So my membership there was truly for the social aspects. I joined because I worked with a bunch of guys who were members and who invited me to join. Otherwise, I probably wouldn’t have joined at all. I did enjoy my membership, once I had taken the step. I’m sorry to say that I let my membership lapse; I wouldn’t mind at all re-joining but I can’t afford to pay twenty years worth of back dues.
I petitioned a lodge of Masons for membership primarily because my father and paternal grandfather were Masons; it seemed fitting that I continue the tradition. I found the ritual and the traditions of Masonry satisfied some need that I had, and I also found the experience of petitioning and being found worthy of acceptance quite gratifying. I became very interested in the history of Masonry and was, at one time, fairly knowlegeable in that area. I served as an officer in several positons, culminating in my election as Master of my home lodge. As Master of that Lodge, I joined an unbroken chain of Masters dating back to the 1870s; several of them had been men who were instrumental in the settlement and development of the Dakota territories. They had been educators, ministers, farmers, attorneys, civic leaders, etc., etc. I had a powerful desire to measure up to the standards set by those men and I hope that I did. Leading a Lodge that had been in existence for better than one hundred years was humbling and provided me with a deep sense of appreciation that I actively participated in the Lodge’s history. I’ve taken some wrong turns in my life since that time, but no matter what, I am still an honored member and Past Master of my Lodge; my photograph will hang there for years to come, barring accident, and the record of my tenure as Master will be there so long as the Lodge endures.
I don’t know that Masons, as a group, are more mystical, intellectual or ethical than others; it would be egostical and unseemly to claim such attainment of superiority. What I treasure most is the acceptance into a group of men whose stated aim is to make good men better through the exemplification of profound moral truths by means of allegorical rituals. It is gratifying, to me, to be part of an organization whose guiding principles are liberty, equality, and fraternity for all peoples, wherever dispersed; those same principles guided the French revolution and the founding of the USA; Masonic principles are, at least in part, the guiding light of our constitution. Quite a few of our Founding Fathers were Masons; several of our Presidents have been Masons, as have many of our Congressmen and Senators. Our membership includes many military leaders; artists, authors, actors, and men of all walks of life; the poorest of whom are recognized as Brothers to the most illustrious and who are entirely equal to them when in a duly convened Lodge of Masons. If that ain’t equality and fraternity, then those things don’t exist.