Sorry, Chronos. Please return your gaydar for a new model.
That situation you describe is more likely to mean the guy is gay. Straight women aren’t usually going to throw themselves on a guy that already is carrying a harem (unless he’s a high-status guy like a rock star).
The scenario you describe is more likely the case that the women’s gaydar has already identified the guy as a hunky gay and are flocking to him for safe flirtation. He’s not repelling them because being gay isn’t the same as cootiephobia ( ). Many gay guys dig physical flirtation with women. And drunk girls start to forget they’re barking up the wrong tree and thus take themselves out of the evening’s hook-up pool to the chagrin of the straight guys there.
If that guy starts getting all droopy eyed and wants to kiss the girls… straight. (And the other girls get upset and catfights erupt over the string-them-along douchebag.)
If that guy grabs their breast and they just giggle… gay.
I disagree with his post being over the line as yours clearly was.
Now again, if you wish to continue this conversation, make a thread in ATMB about it.