Lots of guys are giving them up. But the real problem with ties and suits is that men don’t trouble themselves to shop. I am simply astounded that there are guys who will buy shirts off the rack without trying them on first.
yes but in some businesses guys don’t have the choice to give them up, such as law and banking and wall street. Also BB and hockey coaches still wear suits/ties. Baseball and FB coaches don’t. In fact the NFL requires coaches to wear the team logo gear (shirts, hats, etc.) and they don’t allow any other clothes and of course baseball they wear the uniforms like the players.
Nice business casual looks way better than a crappy or ill fitting suit.
Men’s styles do change, just not as fast as women’s. It’s been a while since breeches and frock coats exited stage left. Longer since pantaloons and jerkins were the thing.
That said, a man’s shirt size changes over time… My cousin Sam, god bless him, still thigs he wears the same size 16 neck he did when we were in our teens, thrity years ago. Most guys who think find ties uncomfortable need to get tyhe right size shirt.
I expect that if you don’t look periodically get re-measured or at least try out new shirts in person, you won’t be getting shirts that fit from your London tailor in five years.
I don’t know. Most of what we wear, that goes beyond the utilitarian, is no stranger than a tie. A scarf, vest, jewelry are all just as odd. Ties are cool looking and one fun way for guys to express himself.
Ties are no more an “anachronism” than they were 100 years ago. They never served a practical purpose. They’re just fashion.
Personally, I like wearing a suit for work. Or at the very least, wear something that looks put together. I hate that Silicon Valley “dress like a 15 year old for work” mentality.
I did, a long time ago, I don’t own either suit or tie, I don’t go to locations or events where they’re “required”, and if it was up to me, I’d destroy every last suit and tie n the planet, I hate 'em that much.
As for being anachronism, one could say the same thing about skirts and dresses. The fact that you don’t like a fashion item doesn’t mean it’s in the wrong time period any more than the fact that I don’t like one does. I think the custom of young black menof wearing their pans so as to expose their asses is unattractive, but it’s not anachronistic.
Ties feel uncomfortable – by which I mean too tight – when the collar about which tehey’re fastened are smaller than is appropriate. And that happens when the wearer does not trouble himself to try the shirt on before buying it. Guys assume that their neck size is as immutable as the arm length, which is clearly not true. When a shirt stops fitting well they tell themselves it’s because the shirt has shrunk in the laundry, not because their necks have expanded. Hell, you see the same thing with pants.
Or if we do try them on, we don’t know how they’re supposed to fit. A few years ago, I bought a new dress shirt from JC Penny (as opposed to the thrift shops where I usually buy them). A very helpful sales clerk saw me uncertain as to which size I should get, sprang into action with a measuring tape, and pointed me to the correct one. And damned if that thing wasn’t actually comfortable! I hadn’t realized, before then, that that was even an option for dress shirts. Since then, now that I know what to look for, I can get comfortable shirts at thrift shops, too, but I had to first be shown how.