It doesn’t matter too much about ordering beer or wine at Red Lobster. They are probably going to have three wines (red, white, blush) and five beers (National Brand 1, National Brand 1 Lite, National Brand 1 Premium (maybe), Regional Brand 2, Regional Brand 2 Lite).
Try each beer with one fried entree and the white or blush wine with a broiled entree (I’m assuming a separate visit for each of these try-outs) and see what you prefer. If you like it, drink it.
In general (lots of exceptions) white wines go with white meats (fish, poultry, roast pork) and red wines go with beef and ostrich.
Lighter beers (most “standard” American brands, lagers, pilseners, pale ales) go better with saltier foods. Darker beers (porters, stouts, most ales) go with richer foods.
Rmat’s dismissal of beers is either silliness or trolling. When beer drinkers attempt to mimic the stupidity of wine snobs, they look as silly as wine snobs. That much is true. There are genuine differences between various wines and various beers that it is good to know (hence my earlier suggestion of a wine- or beer-tasting). Knowing what general wine or beer is best with certain seasonings can enhance a meal. Knowing that a particular vintner had a really good vintage in a specific year can also be fun. Believing that there is $30 difference in taste between two bottles of wine is generally an indication of too much money. (Believing that there is $5 dollars difference between two bottles of already over-priced beer is stupid.) Rmat did have a good analogy: I would say that most wine snobs are generally the fundies of the eating business. They find a bible and believe it no matter how little sense it makes.
If you ignore the snob factor, either a good beer or a good wine can enhance the flavors of a meal. The importance is matching the varieties (tastes) between the foods and the beverages. Since there are more varieties of wine, Rmat gets a small nod that it is probably easier to find more wines than beers that match specific food tastes.
If you step up your dining habits a little bit, (and I have enjoyed meals at Red Lobster; let’s not get into the whole food snobbery issue), you will often find that the server can provide suggestions of beverages to match the meals. If you skip a few outings and save up for a really classy place, they will even have a sommolier/wine steward to help you make the correct choice. (If the sommolier is condescending, it is over-priced, not classy.) You can also find books on the subject both at the local bookstore and at most wine or liquor shops.
Slightly different take:
If you like really sweet drinks, try ordering a chablis before dinner, then order, oh, a riesling with the dinner. Most rieslings are dry, but they are flavorful, so you can ease away from your sweet preferences while seeing how the taste of the food differs with different wines.
(Riesling is not the best choice to truly enhance all meals. I use it because it is a flavorful wine that rarely hurts the flavor of anything and will provide a bridge to try other varieties. Going directly to a sauvignon blanc with no “education” of your palate (that just means conditioning your expectations), will probably leave you thinking that “fancy wine” is simply tasteless, which it is not.
For beers, remember a very general rule that the darker it is, the less it should be chilled. If your waiter brings a porter or stout that is as cold as a Bud, let it stand awhile until it warms a bit. Very cold dark beers taste bitter. Warmed slightly they taste sweet. (The old wrangling fight between Brits and Yanks about British room-temperature beer is silly. Yeah, the Brits serve it at room temperature, but since they don’t allow central heating, over there, the beer is still fairly chill–it simply isn’t the ice-cold stuff that we often serve. The Brits serve lager and pilsener at about the same temperature that we do; it is the heavier stuff that is served at warmer (not warm) temperatures.
Tom~