…A punch sideways, of course.
If you’ve communicated by *both *stating verbally and demonstrating what you like and don’t like, and she doesn’t get it, you have my permission to either have her killed, or to refrain sleeping with her further.
Shit, this is better than having to watch sex in the city to figure out the real deal on women.
I’ve had women in the past that appeared get aroused while was serving a little TLC to their breasts I guess it wasn’t an act.
I like boobies
ditto for me. There’s a direct link between my breasts (specifically nipples) and my clitoris. Yea me! 
Hardwired. That’s what he calls it and it’s so true! Makes sense as nursing after birth helps the uterus contract down…
I’m just glad that 2/3 of the responses have been affirmative. Girlfriends in the past seem to enjoy the light fingernail stroking. So I always figured it was a good starter. Glad to know I was probably right.
You two seem to be trusting us over the word of people you’re actually getting naked with. That can’t be a good idea.
That may very well be the most intelligent post I have read on any message board.
Yeah, but the data normalizes better on the message board. There’s a larger sample on the SDMB than my personal life. And all the ladies I’ve been with were hardly going to be as clinical in their reactions. JSGoddess, are you saying that your statements are not to be trusted?
I’m saying that if you are getting naked with someone, you should be talking with her and asking her what she likes and responding to what she tells you rather than relying on a highly unscientific poll on a message board to somehow give you insight into the individual who is in front of you.
And if you can’t communicate with her, keep your clothes on.
I’ve got a three-page form I ask the ladies to fill out.
Nothing turns me on like questionnaires. I find it hot when a guy brings a clipboard to the bedroom.
A female friend of mine, who I used to fool around with when we were both single, was the exception to this rule. She liked having her nipples sucked HARD. Seriously - you know how you can make your own tongue hurt from sucking too hard on a straw or something? I was sucking that hard and she was still yelling at me to do it harder. My tongue was sore for about two days after seeing her. Crazy girl. :eek:
Ask her what she likes ? Why don’t women just tell us what they like, why do we have to ask you ? I tell women what I like and what I like to do and let them know I want to please them directions welcomed always. Is it because if women initiate it your all going to feel like dirty girls ?
I mean come on seriously. If it’s pleasure for women, women are at fault for not telling us not men at fault for not asking. Trust me if women thought our joystick was our earlobs and your milking that lobe like mad we’d be telling you pretty quick where to focus.
I’ve been with a few women, I’ve had only one women tell me she enjoyed the attention I gave her breasts. I honestly didn’t know for a majority of women it was an erogenous zone. I supect the majority of men here if polled would respond the same.
I’ll admit a clipboard doesn’t strike me as all that erotic, but damn. These dudes are counting on the Straight Dope Message Board for sexual advice. If that isn’t a recipe for failure, I don’t know what is.
Why the hell didn’t I think of this?
My breasts, specifically my nipples, are VERY responsive to stimulation. I can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone, and greatly prefer it as part of the overall process as it intensifies my pleasure. (if a man DOESN’T pay some attention to the girls, I will;) Actually, I will demand he does…if he still doesn’t, pretty much a deal breaker)
But handling the other parts of the breasts really doesn’t do anything for me…it’s all in the nipps.
I breastfed 2 kids for extended periods, and aside from the hormonal rush you get, which is pleasurable in a calming way, absolutely no sexual stimulation or satisfaction whatsoever. Maybe it is that the mind tends to segregate the functions and blocks those associations?
But even when I was nursing, I could go from that activity to sexual activity and get great pleasure from breast play.
After a while, I found my nipples lost some sensitivity, but to my great relief, it all came back after not nursing for a while.
Hard for me to believe so many say “eh, does nothing for me”. (not that I think they’re LYING, just that for me, WOW!!!)
I agree. Field research is definitely preferable.
On the other hand, my experiments involving buckets of ice water and speedbagging didn’t deliver promising results (unless you’re the type of guy who finds swift kicks to the groin to be a turn-on).
I went with other. Depends on the time of my month, my mood and what else is going (like so many other sexual things, I guess).
I will say that even though I started puberty pretty young they weren’t really sexual, for me, until my 20s. Whether that was due to my hormones, me hating them being stared at or groped by strangers, or rough handling by awkward teenage boy partners, is unknown.
Oh yes. When I’m close to lady time, the girls hurt like a sumbitch, so either touch them extremely gently, or not at all. Other than that, please, please, pretty please play with the girls. Please. And bring a clipboard.