Here I am, a 39-year old Jewish man with a Korean-born adopted daughter who is turning 10 this coming Sunday.
First of all, those posters who find Mr. Allen to be creepy are basically saying, “Soon-Yi has no mind, no conscience, no intelligence and no free will. She’s being used as a plaything and is helpless in the determination of her own destiny”. Please. :rolleyes:
Ms. Previn may have had some contact on and off with Mr. Allen through the years, through her teenage years to be sure. From what I have read, and I’m no Woody-phile, Mr. Allen did NOT reside with Ms. Previn while she was growing up.
It’s impossible for anyone to gauge accurately what kind of parent-child relationship might or might not have formed during those years when Mr. Allen had infrequent contact with Ms. Previn. Whatever the relationship is now, it is consensual.
I’d tend to believe, personally, that this doesn’t smack of an incestuous relationship at all. Ms. Previn should be accorded the right to be able to make her own choice as far as an adult partner goes, without checking with The Will of The Masses first.
newscrasher took a lot of shots at depraved Hollywood-types, and yet in fact offers no hard proof that Ms. Previn was the adopted daughter of Mr. Allen. This isn’t Page Six with Liz Smith, it’s the Straight Dope. Get your facts right and provide us with cites, or don’t accuse.
Decent questions to ponder: Was Ms. Previn influenced by Mr. Allen at an age when she was malleable enough that one might make the accusation of incest? I believe not. Did Ms. Previn chose of her own free will to live with Mr. Allen? Well, unless she claims that she was kidnapped, we all have to believe that the answer was yes. Has Mr. Allen violated any laws here? Check the records. I don’t believe he’s done jail time for anything here.
I am aware that I’m playing devil’s advocate to a large degree, but it’s such a very slippery slope. I won’t condemn what I don’t know enough about, even though on the SURFACE you’d think I would feel I was in the perfect moral position to do so ( see my opening sentence here ). I’d like to land on the side of respecting Ms. Previn’s right to chose her own destiny.
My daughter is my daughter is my daughter. The biology of it is irrelevant, she is my daughter in every single other sense of the word. newscrasher, congratulations on the upcoming adoption of your new daughter. 