I view people who say they are believers or identify themselves as Christian with great suspicion. I won’t hate them unless they start talking about a woman’s proper role, or why we can’t trust the Muslims, or says “the gays,” or “the blacks/hispanics” in conversation, or other similar revealing comments. So far in my life I’ve seen remarkable overlap between people who call themselves Christians and intolerant pricks.
I don’t hate anyone for their political views though, even if they’re extreme. I donate significant (for me) money to the Obama campaign, and it doesn’t bother me one bit when a pro-lifer says he thinks a fetus is a person, or when a gun enthusiast stockpiles ammo because he’s afraid legislation will make it harder to buy soon, or when someone explains why supply side economics is a good idea. I disagree with all three of those people, but they don’t have to be a bigoted asshole to have those opinions.