This is a site devoted to ignorance and anyone who thinks that “well, everyone I know says…” means anything is ignorant. You wanna take it to MPSIMS? Maybe they might care about your immediate group of acquaintances. Use all the anecdotal commentary you want. In a debate forum, it’s useless.
Your mommy may have said you were special, and I hate to break your bubble, but most all moms say that to their kids. You are statistically insignificant.