Yankee Gift Exchange

With the holidays coming up and all, I thought I’d start a thread about the Yankee Gift Exchange. It’s become a tradition in my office, because it’s so much fast-and-furious fun that if we organized a holiday party without it, people would get together and organize one anyway.

Just like with a regular gift exchange, everyone gets one present. But the fun part is that, along the way, people get to steal each other’s presents, with most of the presents changing hands a fair number of times. Here’s how it works:

Preliminaries: everyone buys a present for at most $X (we have a $10 limit), wraps it well enough to conceal the contents, and brings it to the party.

Basics: If there are n participants, the Yankee Gift Exchange has n rounds. (So if you’ve got 9 people involved, there are 9 rounds.) [ul]
[li] Each person starts one round. (We draw numbers out of a hat to see who starts which round.)[/li][li] Each round ends with someone opening a ‘new’ (previously unopened) present.[/li][li] Each round begins with someone either opening a new present (in which case that ends the round right then), or stealing a present someone else already has.[/li][li] If someone steals the present you’ve already got, then you can either steal someone else’s present, or open a new present (ending the round). [/li][li] But to keep it from going on forever, each present can only be stolen once in a round.[/li][/ul]
For example, a hypothetical Round 6:

Persons A, B, C, D, and E already have presents. Person F, who gets to start off Round 5, has already had a chance to see what presents A, B, C, D, and E have so far. If F likes one of those, he steals it. (I’ll come back to this.) If not, he picks a wrapped present from the pile, and unwraps it, ending the round.

So let’s say F steals B’s present. B then looks over what A, C, D, and E have. B decides she likes C’s present, and steals it. C looks over what A, D, and E have, steals E’s present. E looks at A’s and D’s presents, and decides to take a chance on what’s in the pile. E picks out a wrapped present, and unwraps it. End of round.

If you have ten or fifteen rounds of this, it starts off relatively simply, but escalates crazily as things go along. People check out each other’s presents during and between rounds, to see what they’d like to steal if they get the chance. One person will steal a present from another in one round, only to have it stolen back in the next, and then someone new will steal it the following round.

Like I said, everyone gets to start one round. It’s good to start a late round, because then you’re guaranteed to be able to steal good presents. But it’s also good to start an early round, because then you can participate in more rounds of stealing and counter-stealing. So there’s good things about each.

Anyone else have interesting kinds of gift exchanges?

We do that…only we call it “Dirty Santa”. It has some differences though - there aren’t really rounds, but…

Everyone gets to pick a present from the pile. Once you’ve picked it, you either get to open it or take one that someone else has already opened. If you take someone else’s present, then they get to open the one you picked out. Each present can be stolen no more than three times, so you have to pay attention to what you want and how many times it’s been swapped around.

That’s how almost every gift exchange I’ve ever been to was done (RT’s way). Isn’t that pretty common?

At our yearly family reunion we do a version of the “White Elephant.” Everyone brings their wrapped up crappy stuff, and we all (about 100 of us) sit in a circle around the large pile. About 10 decks of cards are shuffled together, and we each get about 5 cards each. A caller has another full deck and calls out each card. Whoever has that card gets to go up and grab a package from the center. When all the stuff is gone, the caller goes through the deck one more time, and when your cards are called, you get to steal a gift from someone else. Only at the very end do we open up all of the packages. Hilarity ensues when someone brings a very large brightly colored wrapped package that everyone attempts to steal, and it turns out to be something lame like a ladle.

Well, last year I lobbied to have the gift exchange at Weirddave’s Christmas party done this way. Got the online equivalent of a bunch of blank looks, and a rebuff. So I was thinking it must not be all that common. Also, I’d never heard of it before my first Christmas at my current office, when I was pushing 45.

Yankee Swap is FUN! My parents do it every year at their popcorn-and-cranberry-stringing party. This is how it works over here:

Everyone who walks in the door with a wrapped gift gets a number. The gifts are all put on a table and the person with number 1 picks and opens a gift. Then number 2 picks and opens a gift, and decides whether or not to take gift number 1. Number 3 can choose gift 1 or 2, number 4 can choose gift 1, 2, or 3, etc. At the end Number 1 gets to choose anything.