I wonder if you realize these two sentences do not actually go together. But, hey, let’s address them.
Q1. Where would I rather live than in the United States of America?
A1. This is more complex a question than you seem to think it is.
The United States has quite the variety of places and peoples. As a white male, I think I would likely suffer less from the discrimination than my wife, a female Korean citizen, would if we were to settle in the United States when I finally retire from working.
The next thing besides discrimination would be educational opportunities for her and any children if we were to have children. Only a certain segment of the Ameican population today is unaware of (or purposely ignores) the fact that the cost of higher education in the United States is going sky high and not looking to reverse direction in the near future. As my wife already has a baccalaureate, the next step on the education ladder would be pursuing a master’s, itself not widely known for being all that cheap.
Of course where in the country to live is a big question. We’d have to find an area that strikes a balance of affordable housing, affordable cost of living, proximity to a military base, decent and affordable health care facilities, and a good public transit system.
Where besides America? Well, she and I would have to apply the above filters to each place. So, far, we’ve been looking at some places in Asia, some in the Americas, and some in the Middle East even.
Q2. And if you are ashamed of your country, what are you doing to make it better?
A2. What makes you think Americans who criticize the country are ashamed of the country? Actually, in my real life experience, when someone’s asked me that question, they are convinced I am ashamed of being American. That’s not the case at all. I am proud of the country’s ideals and am actually working for the country to show that the country really does hold to those ideals.
I educate myself on what the current issues are and what is happening now that is contrary to those ideals. I uphold the rule of law, especially the constitution, and support those in all three branches of government who do likewise. I consider every person to be worthy of the protection of the constitution and the laws and campaign when and where I can to get people who hae the same belief into office in those three branches and to have those who do not removed from those offices. Finally, I endeavor to engage in, I hope, polite discourse with those who do not have the same attitudes as I do, hoping to get them aware of our founding ideals and to not be blinded or fooled by those who are actively working against those ideals.
Q3. (Yes, it’s a three-parter.) And what about you? What are you doing to make it better? What was the actual purpose of your question?
Edited to add:
See the acronym below.
VOTED (Victory Over Traitors Every Day).