Oral, giving (I’m a guy). I’ve never really had a mind-blowing blowjob, but I always always always enjoy going down to the fish market. I’d rather perform oral sex with no reciprocation than have any sort of sex. It’s why I got my tongue pierced. The one thing I’m most worried about (life story summary: fiancee of five years and I just parted ways, I’m starting to consider re-entering the dating scene; also I just got a new job and an awesome apartment!) is getting involved with one of these mysterious women I hear about who don’t enjoy receiving oral.
You’ve clearly not been dating many gay guys. 
Very true 
I wonder just how different it is, and if I’d even be able to get over my hangups as a straight guy to enjoy it.
Only one way to find out. 
Nice to know the old chestnut that only the same sex does things “right” hasn’t died.
Too bad it isn’t true. Lacking a penis, I’ve never gotten a blowjob from a gay man (alas), but I’ve known lesbians who don’t know WTF to do down there. Having a lifetime with the parts in question and a pierced tongue can’t make up for a lack of talent.
If I have to pick only one, my favorite is plain old ordinatery penis-vagina sex in what I’ve always considered the three “basic” positions–missionary, woman on top or “doggy” style–usually switching around if one set of muscles gets tired. Of course, this is a lot like answering what flavor of ice cream is best (vanilla because it offers most options for toppings). Really, it’s not the act, it’s the partner, and variety of “acts” is really what I like best.
I think it’s truer for men than women. Penile sensations just don’t present as many differences as vaginal ones. So while all men like getting head in different ways, I would posit that it’s more complicated to find the correct way to give women mind blowing oral than it is for men.
Didn’t Admiral Nelson send a letter to Lady Hamilton asking her not to wash?
Or was that Napoleon to 'er indoors?
My preference?..at age 66, anything, anything at all, please God anything (hetero that is)
Being held and touched all over, while I close my eyes and daydream.
I’m not huge on the “actual sex” but I love being close with someone and getting lost in thought.
I never said that only the same sex does it right, actually. I just think we’re at an advantage, what with having the same bits and all.
So shoosh.
I’m a female who likes the second act of Hamlet.
What?
Now I’m depressed. How did I end up with apparently the only person in the whole world who doesn’t like giving oral?
Pervert. All the normal people like the first act.
Oh, pshaw. Act one is just one thing or a mother.
Tying her up and blindfolding her, then fucking her hard and long while I smack her ass red, she screams and …
Ehm, I mean, one more for oral.
And some guy from Denmark posts after we talk about Hamlet. Ironic in the Alanis sense or just freaky?
Having the same bits certainly hasn’t given some people I know much of an advantage! I think enthusiasm is the real key; give me an enthusiastic person with different bits over an unenthusiastic one with the same bits as mine any day. I’m bisexual, so that’s the only way it would matter to me.
Can’t argue with that.
I kind of like giving head while jerking off, either on my knees or laying on my back.