Interestingly one of the first suggested related threads to this one is this one:
From 2006. Nineteen freakin years ago. The trend is not a new one. The conversation there is pretty representative. Lots of support and empathy for men of our community in the position of being involuntarily unmatched. Some who are still here. None of them feeling that the appropriate reaction for them was to pull women down.
Yeah there are forums of men who attack woman and blame “Chads”, who think violence is a justified response even, and groups of assholes in other forums and likely those who bully anyone who is vulnerable, including those who share their being romantically lonely. But if you see it frequently then you are in a different world than I see every day.