Horrible title but hard to summarize the question.
Background: the number of college educated and beyond women in their 20s and 30s with pretty high paying jobs is increasing while the number of men with those characteristics is not. Statistically men of lower education level are more likely to be of more traditional values. Women of higher education level more likely to not be. Women generally are more likely to swipe right for a man who has higher income and higher education.
But which is preferred when only one is present? Which is more important? (Debate with my wife whose clients in her therapy practice include some in that age group dealing with dating in their early thirties)
I realize our board is short on single women in that age group so please feel free to share what you’ve gathered from friends and adult children.
I’m guessing education, and the more equality minded value sets that tend to travel with it, are of more importance to a highly educated successful women than a potential partner making more than them. My wife thinks money matters lots more.
My late 20s junior partner married her high school sweetheart and is both more highly educated and higher paid than he is. Her take based on friends is agreeing that education matters more “unless he’s stupid rich”.
Opinions?