Thank you. You educate me about many pacific island issues and I am always thankful. I am not anything related to Hawaii at all. I’m an Irish-German mutt of an Australian who lives in Japan and has never been to Hawaii.
I don’t see things the way you do. It’s just a different way of viewing things I guess. I would never adopt the mindset of the people who hate me, just to try and fit in. I’m not exactly saying that’s what you are doing, but it would feel that way to me. Listen to people, they will tell you who they are. If they want to call you and your kind a racial slur, as they do in Hawaii, and you just take it, well that’s your choice. Some natives might like you just for who you are, but as a group, they hate you.