How long, in months, can you listen to someone talk about doing something, without actually doing it, before you murder them?
For the purposes of this poll, the person is a good friend who has been obsessed with a single goal that is fairly simple and straight-forward to accomplish and requires a small amount of planning, and some effort, money, but almost zero effort has been put into the goal. Don’t ask me to define any of these terms besides “obsessed” because I won’t.
When I say obsessed, I mean there are e-mails about it at least once weekly, text messages, Facebook wall posts, it is impossible to have a conversation where the topic does not come up at least once. It’s become a staple of your friendship. It’s constantly yadda yadda yadda about this one, single thing.
But. The person has put zero effort into accomplishing the goal, bristles at the idea of suffering the mild inconveniences spending the time and money required to reach said goal, and gets defensive when told her plan, or lack thereof to be more accurate, will keep her where she is 100 years after she’s dead.
Yes, all people have something annoying that they do, and it’s part of life, but how long can you put up with endless idle talk about the same thing before you, “SHIT OR GET OFF THE MOTHERFUCKING POT! You don’t listen to anyone’s advice, you haven’t done jack shit to accomplish what you’ve been calling your goddamn ‘dream’ for something in the order of a year now, and when an opportunity almost fell into your lap, you waffled about it. How clear it is you’re better at talking than doing has made your talk beyond tiresome. You also say it’s been your dream for, what, three years now? Okay, because it was two years last time we talked. What’s next – it was a lifelong dream? In any case, if it’s been your ‘dream’ all this time, how come you haven’t done a fucking thing about it yet? How long does it fucking take to do this, anyway? Better yet, how long does it take to initiate the process. Why haven’t you even done that yet? Just fucking start it already, and don’t talk to me about it again until you have. Seriously, don’t bring up this topic ever again unless it begins with ‘I have taken the following steps toward accomplishing my goal, and have set a deadline of.’ Otherwise, if you bring it up in my presence again, this friendship will end in your death.”
How long before you say that?