Guy poll: Big boobs always better?

[popokis5]

I was just watching a True Hollywood Story-The girl was a Bunny, etc, sex symbol, etc. This was pre-implant. Actually, I grew up before implants so my question is, do ALL guys only want big boobs?

[acconav]

nope. some do, sure, but definately not all. i go for the small end of the scale, myself.

[hajario]

Big fake boobs are revolting.

Natural is always better and I prefer smaller over larger. Dig up the IBTC thread for a giant list of Dopers who like 'em small.

Haj

[AHunter3]

I wouldn't refuse to get involved with a woman just because she had large ones, but it definitely is not a turn-on. Ask the women how many would prefer to date a guy with elephantiasis of the balls--I'd imagine it would be aesthetically similar.

[roadrunner70]

Natural is just that...natural. Dance with the guy that brung ya. A friend of mine has been determined to get implants, and I've finally persuaded her not to. And she's got nice boobs to begin with, I just don't understand. I like 'em real...the boobs, and the girls. And these girls with the astronomically sized boobs...jeez. That'll look good when you're 60.

[SmackFu]

While I don't think larger breasts alone would make me prefer one girl over another, I won't deny that a given attractive girl may be more attractive with larger breasts.

[Coldfire]

I don't like them really small, although it's never been a dealbreaker in the past.

But too big is certainly not a good thing in my book. Too big is a vague description, of course. It all depends on the person, their weight/height, et cetera. Suffice it to say my girlfriend has perfect boobs.

[BlackKnight]

Breasts are only too small if they're smaller than mine. They're only too large if they are larger than my head.

[ShibbOleth]

No. Natural is best, prefer smaller to big, but it's frankly not terribly important.

[Ringo]

34Cs have been the staple of my life.

Really, while they attract us, and they're fun to be with, they can be just too exaggerated. Since the advent of the Internet I've seen things that even the most fervent 6th grade cartoonist couldn't imagine, and I don't find 'em at all attractive.

For most of us men, women appeal to us on several levels; physical attraction is one level. Certain curves and angles draw the eye, but the whole person beats any one physical feature and, frankly, for me, a flat chested gal with the right attitude goes a lot further than monster mammaries ever could.

[carnivorousplant]

The French say they should fit into a wineglass. That is a pleasant thought, but in Much Ado About Nothing Benedict in describing the perfect woman says "And her hair...shall be the color that pleaseth God". One could paraphrase the bard.

[Ringo]

I mean really; have ya' ever talked to a tit?

[Czarcasm]

Real answer: It really doesn't matter to me.

Smart-ass answer: Anything more than a mouthfull.....means I get to go back for seconds.

[widdershins]

Most of us straight guys have certainly talked AT enough of them. Carried on a conversation with one? No.

FTR, I prefer they be in proportion to the rest of the woman's frame. But women are more than just a collection of body parts, a flat chested woman who is exciting to be with, talk to, and damn fun to be around is a lot sexier than a large pair of breasts attached to a woman who makes your skin crawl.

[popokis5]

As a woman who doesn't male bash, (really) you all give me faith. (And ammo!)

[guitarmax_99]

Breast size really doesn't matter to me. I never even understood why some guys were into huge hooters. But hey, given a choice between "T&A", I guess I'm an "A" guy.

But seriously, a woman's personality, character, and intellect are far more important to me than her breast size.

[Triskadecamus]

How the woman herself responds made her breasts more or less of an issue for me. A fond memory of a very good friend stays with me, because she flaunted her very small breasted body with such happy enthusiasm. Very hot. And very small. I still think of her, whenver the subject of small breasts comes up.

Tris
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Tits. Love 'em. So sue me.

[Sublight]

Big boobs? No thanks.

They can be fun for a while, but personally I prefer small ones.

Fake ones, however, are right out.

[China Guy]

I prefer smaller. Yowza

[Chris Luongo]

Quality over quantity.

I look for firmness, roundness, nipples in alignment. Size is often of least importance.

I've never seen fake breasts in person, but I'd imagine they're much like vinyl siding---flawless in the technical sense, but devoid of character.

Many "naturally" large breasts are simply a product of the woman's obesity. It can look nice all bundled up in a bra, but when that bra comes off........no man wants to have to gather the meandering breast up into one big pile before he can play with it.

It could also be that I like the young look, and small breasts look younger.

Also, middle-aged small breasts usually look very good; middle-aged large breasts often sag heavily.

Besides all that, A is
ohsoverymuch more important than T.

Chris Luongo, Rumpologist

P.S. The OP didn't ask about whether a woman's breasts or personality are more important. I hope I don't sound like a womanizer here; I'm just trying to answer the breast question.

[Coldfire]

Trust me, with those words, few women will think you're a womanizer.

[Ssarl the happy Martian]

There are some things in life that shouldn't be too artificial.

Music.
Vegetables.
And breasts.

I don't really care what size they are, so long as they're made of fat rather than jelly!

[Squish]

As a naturally large-breasted woman who is not obese, nasty comments about big breasts hurt my feelings. Fortunately, my boyfriend will often flash his (evil) dimples at me and burst into, "HooOOOoooo-ray for BooOOObies!", lol!

[S. Mussberger]

Smaller...

[divemaster]

My wife has the slender build common to many Asian women. Breasts smallish but proportional to her frame. That is just fine with me. I'm more attracted to the nipple area anyway than breast volume. And my wife has wonderful large nipples that are very responsive. Or is that TMI?

[Aguecheek]

Small perky boobs are beautiful.
Big soft boobs are gorgeous.
Fake boobs are an offence.

[El Elvis Rojo]

I've said it before, and got two threads going on it already, so I'll say it again:

ALL HAIL THE ITTY BITTIES!!!!!

Natural breasts are great, no matter what size. Small ones are just as good (and often times more attractive) than large breasts. And many people agree, fake breasts just look creepy. Sure, they're fun to play bedroom basketball with, but when it comes down to appeal and wonder, you just can't beat a nice set of perky small breasts.

[Max Carnage]

Give me Gwen Stefani and her smaller, all-natural breasts over Britney Spears and her B.O.U.S.es (Breasts Of Unusual Size) any day.

[eunoia]

Just my opinion, don't have a cow.

Nice ones come in all shapes sizes, so no, big is not always better. Sometimes big works, sometimes no.

Which doesn't mean that natural is always better either. I know a few women who were way hotter pre-implant or breast reduction surgery, but, conversely, most women feel they've improved their looks after plastic surgery and in most cases, I have to agree.

Except for the way, way less than 1% of freakish breasts, I'd say I'd still rather look at them than do most other things.

[Pablito]

1) I don't really care at all about breasts--there are about 100 other things, some of them physical, that are more important to me in a woman;
2) huge breasts are pretty gross; I'd much rather be with a woman with no breasts than one with enormous multiple-letter-sized bras;
3) If I have to choose a favorite size/type of breasts, I'll go with a nice, firm pair of perky C-cups, with prominent, responsive nipples, all gently packed into B-cups and eager to bounce out;
4) It REALLY doesn't matter;
5) more than a mouthfull is ample;
6) I do like to see cleavage;
7) I love curves, wherever they may be: hips, breasts, neck, legs, stomach;
8) they should be proportionate and believable: don't put a pair of D's on a woman who is built like Kate Moss;
9) a big, beautiful woman looks a bit better with a larger pair, to complement and properly balance the rest of her;
10) It really DOESN't matter;
11) I've never chosen a woman to date based on her breast size, never even considered it;
12) Ladies, it really doesn't MATTER how big or small your breasts are--I love you all, in every shape and size and color.
13) OK?

Now, would some of the women please reassure me about the size of my penis?

[D_Odds]

Given a choice, large over small, natural over fake. However, breast size has never been the make-or-break. They're nice if they are included in the total package, but are not required.

[Broodha]

IMHO

First of all, for me, attraction is always driven by personality and attitude. Second of all, I think natural is always better than fake.

Lastly, I can't help but admit that I find small breasts very very sexy. One of my sexiest ex-SOs had little puffy nipples. Grrrr.

[p@cific@812]

No.
(everything else has already been said... )

[Ol'Gaffer]

Pulse? important.

Size? not.

[WavyDavy]

A perfect B cup will do very nicely, thanks all the same.

[Algernon]

Geez, I promised myself when I registered that I'd never post in these kind of threads.

::sigh::

But what the heck. At work here it's a slow afternoon right before a long holiday weekend, and half the office isn't here anyway, so...

I have to say that Pablito has it pretty well covered with his list. I second those opinions as strongly as if I'd have written them myself.

His ending bon mot however is pertinent to the OP. We all want to be reassured that our appearance is acceptable. Do ALL men like big boobs? No.

All men, contrary to popular opinion, do not have the same taste in what makes a woman attractive. We do not all like the stereotypical California blond with big boobs. Take me for example (please!).

I am much more attracted to a woman who looks like Jennifer Lopez or Jessica Alba (hmmm, maybe I have a thing for "J" names?) Pamela Anderson does nothing for me. I am ambivalent regarding the size and shape of boobs. It doesn't matter a whit.

[SpartanDC]

Firmness is more important than anything in this area, for me. My last GF had a perfectly firm, natural pair of 34C's that are still, to this day, the best I've ever seen or laid hands on. Perfectly in proportion to her body, nipples were the perfect size and extremely sensitive.

And yet my latest crush has nothing much to speak of in that area. Wit, intelligence, overall good looks are what matters to me. Nice boobs are just gravy.

[Great Dave]

As I once said to my ex- "I wouldn't complain if you woke up tomorrow with C cups." But I'd take great A's over droopy C's or D's. More than a mouth and handful is a waste.

[Lightnin']

I LOVE small breasts. Love 'em, love 'em, love 'em.

Small nipples are really nice, too- I've never understood the attraction to large nipples.

[Love Rhombus]

I like small breasts, they just seem more..intimate to me somehow. Would I be absolutlely crushed and turned off if my gf (whom I love muchly) suddenly and naturally grew a cup size? No, but part of what attracted me to her originally physically was her chest size. I love her and her chest. The size isn't important, it's that fact that they are hers that make them attractive to me.

[mouthbreather]

I prefer larger breasts (38c is fine with me). But, I'd take small real ones over big (or even medium ) fake ones anyday. Fake boobs are an incredible turnoff, and at the risk of me sounding shallow, are quite possibly a deal breaker.


Having said all of that, Nipples are just as, if not more important than breast size. Small to normal nipples are good. Big oatmeal-cookie sized nipples are not at all attractive to me.

[Khadaji]

I do like 'em kinda big, but I prefer perky. And so, since I'm getting older and at this age we all start to sag in places, well, the small ones stand more perky at our age...

Having said that, I can tell you truthfully that a pretty smile will make my knees weak way more than breasts.

[Giraffe]

I'd rather they were too small than too big, but I find a pretty big size range attractive.

[Dieter]

I consider myself a boobman. I love the breasts.

But I don't care if they are big, small, huge, tiny. A boob is a boob is a boob. I'll take a tiny boob, I'll take a huge boob. I'll take any I can get my hands on.

[Squish]

Originally posted by Great Dave
More than a mouth and handful is a waste.

I guess I'm fortunate, then: my boyfriend has BIG hands.

[pepperlandgirl]

Eh, me too Squish.
I asked my husband what he thought on the subject.
Me: If you had to choose between a-b or D which would you choose.
Him: D.
Me: If I got a booby reduction would you still love me?
Him: Don't even joke about boobie reductions...

[blowero]

I prefer small and perky. Of course, boob size is far from my top criterea - it's just not that important in the grand scheme of things. Fake boobs are just sad - if your self-esteem is so low that you feel you need bigger tits to feel good about yourself, you would be better off investing the money into therapy. And besides, who wants to see a couple of basketball-shaped breasts anyway? (Well, o.k. - I'm sure there's plenty of guys who like 'em that way, but I don't). To me, perfectly spherical fake breasts just look stupid.

Actually I'm amazed how many guys answered "small" in this thread. I thought it was just me.

[furr]

do people who have had breast reductions count as real or fake breasts i wonder?

i use to be a size 34 triple E on a 5ft slim frame. im now a D cup, and frankly ive never really had any complaints about my large breasts being saggy or not being perky enough. large doesnt always equal droopy.

in other women i tend to spend all my alotted breast looking time gazing at anything between a C to a D cup. but then i like my women very curvy and a little chubby.

[Squish]

Originally posted by furr
large doesnt always equal droopy.

Hear, hear! I'm about a 40D (or would be, if I wore bras) and my breasts are full, round and *not* droopy.

[pulykamell]

Hell, I have no preference to size, either. Just enough to have something to hold on to in emergency situations.

But if I were pressed, I would opt for a firm 34-36C with nice pinkish nipples. I like firm perky breasts. I don't like A cups, nor do I like cup sizes beyond the D range. That said, it's never a decisive factor. I've dated As, I've dated the larger side of Ds. Big breasts can be fun. I don't know why, but there's something comforting about cupping a big breast whilst spooning. I used to always say "more than a handful is a wasteful," until I dated my first large-chested girl. I'll admit firsthand that more than a handful can be wonderful.

But those superfluous Tiffany Towers breasts, well, I've never understood the attraction.