In September my boyfriend and I are going to different universitys. Well, his ex is a friend of mine and while we were talking she mentioned which university she’s going to - which is the same one as my boyfriend. So I’m going to be miles away from my boyfriend while he’s with his ex. Am I right to be nervous?
Yep.
If it is meant to be then nothing is going to change things.
But, speaking from experience, sometimes the person you think is right for you and that you will spend your life with isn’t going to end up being that person.
Be open to new experiences and meeting new people and give your boyfriend that opportunity also.
Like I said, if you are meant to be together then it will work out and some ex-girlfriend isn’t going to change that.
However, I would make sure to not neglect the relationship and give the ex any room to cause a wedge between you two.
Talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he thinks. Did they break up on good terms because they were just heading in different directions? Did one of them cheat on the other? Do you think the ex has any interest in getting back with him? Does he regret their breakup? Who broke up with who?
Don’t let worrying about this ruin your college experience for you.
Gee, Thanks dropzone, thats really comforting. lol
Oh and Aries28, she broke up with him and he didn’t want to. He spent a lot of time trying to get her back until he eventually moved on. She doesn’t seem to have any interest in getting back with him and actually told me it was fine when we started dating.