The last couple of days, every time I see other men I keep thinking “they’re probaly bigger than me”… Last night I dreamt that I was in prison, and in the showers, I was laughed at by the other prisoners.
I do realise that I have enough to get the job done (my girlfriend never complained), but still I’m having a hard time respecting myself. It’s on my mind constantly.
I looked into penis enlargments (surgery) but decided this is not an option (too dangerous etc). What should I do?
Oh, now, don’t get all up in a tizzy. If your girlfriend doesn’t complain, what’s the problem? There might be a lot of guys that are bigger than you are; so what? As long as it’s functioning and you’re satisfying your girlfriend, you’ve got nothing to be ashamed of.
Another was smaller around than my pinkie and not as long as the aforementioned finger.
I am average and those two made me feel like Long Dong Silver or BIG JIM SLADE.
If it works and provides you and your partner with pleasure, don’t mess with a good thing. Bigger is not better.
Don’t take the bullshit advertising to heart. Ignore the insecure men around you who trumpet their virility and size. You are not competing with anyone.
I think that the reasons that folks are not taking this seriously is that the subject has been done to death (although credit where due in that this thread is not about how huge you are). Couple that with the fact that used your very first post to start a thread on the subject and, well, the results are predictable (not to disparage low post counts, we all started at some point. Just pointing out that this is a road many of us have been down before and so we joke around).
I know, but I always hoped I was average… dealing with the fact that I’m below average is very hard for me.
It actually has nothing to do with my girlfriend. I know she’s happy about me… but I’m not.
Another was smaller around than my pinkie and not as long as the aforementioned finger. HARD.
I am average and those two made me feel like Long Dong Silver or BIG JIM SLADE.
If it works and provides you and your partner with pleasure, don’t mess with a good thing. Bigger is not better.
Don’t take the bullshit advertising to heart. Ignore the insecure men around you who trumpet their virility and size. You are not competing with anyone.
Five and half inches is not a laughable size, just a little bellow average. If your girth is decent that is much more important. But a good tongue technique is far better and learnable. I have seen exactly one errect pensis in real life, but as a naturist I have seen plenty of flacid ones and many are scarily small (and a few scarily large) in that state, so I doubt the range of 5.5 to 6.5 inches given in that web site of yours (though the one errect penis I have seen does come somewhere in tha range).
You could try muscle work that does not increase size, but improves ejeculation. When pissing learn to stop the flow through tightening penile muscles (you’ll probably tighten your sphyncter at the same time) get to learn the feel for those penis muscles and work them regularly to tone up down bellow.
Accepting everything in your OP at face value, you’ve already received a serious response from your sex partner (remember her? “my girlfriend never complained”).
Honestly, if that’s the case, what additional comfort do you need from a bunch of strangers on the Internet?
As long as it is functional, don’t worry. There are plenty that are bigger and plenty that are smaller. Also, remember the ones who brag the most usually have the least, or don’t know what to do with it.
What do you want? We don’t have a magic wand we can wave that will make your penis any bigger. I can forward you some of the many emails I receive on a daily basis on exactly this subject, if you’d like.
The only opinions about your penis size that matter are yours and your girlfriend’s, in that order. If you think it’s too small in spite of your girlfriend’s opinion, how do you expect us to change your mind?
Well, BtB beat me to the punch a bit, but here’s my advice:
14 cm isn’t inadequate.
Girth counts more than length.
Most women don’t want to be penetrated too deeply. It hurts.
After the first two inches, sensitivity of the vagina drops off rapidly.
Find the G-spot.
Learn good oral stimulation techniques.
Remember all that, and you won’t have any trouble pleasing your woman.
Most importantly, stop judging yourself by penis enlargement ads and what porn starlets are scripted to say. Their intent is to make you feel inadequate and perpetuate the myth that women like to be ravaged by equine-equipped barbarians. And remember, those guys in porn videos are all like 5’-2" which makes their appendages look much much bigger than they really are.
If I took a little more time to think about it, I might have a little more compassion. But I’m in a bit of a hurry, so what you get is what you get.
You always hoped you were average? Does this apply to all segments of your life and your characteristics? Doesn’t seem like a great thing to aim for, if you ask me.
So you’ve got a pee-wee wee-wee. And? How is anyone supposed to make you feel better about this? Especially after your girlfriend has given the thumbs up! “Aww, it’s ok little fella. It may be small but it’s awfully cute!” Really. What do you want?
Whatever are you going to do when you realize that there are other people that make more money than you; that are taller than you; that are better at Pinochle; that can type faster? Whatever will you do when you find out that you’re somewhat less than average at math, or reading speed, or computer skills?
This is different? How? You haven’t put enough effort into embiggening it? You want someone to make you accept it? Fine. You hereby and hereafter accept that your penis is slightly below “average” size. I must ask, though, what kind of average. Mean, probably. Which doesn’t matter anyway. Are you below median? 'Cause guys like Long Dong and Mockingbird really skew the mean.
As an endnote, you wanna talk below average? All this is coming from a guy 5’5.5". That’s right…5’5.5". Not even five-six. Then again, I don’t have a pee-wee wee-wee, so I guess I’m not that bad off.
As was stated above, breadth (thickness) is an important factor as well, and I’d say more important than length. Most of the nerve endings of the vagina are, IIRC, concentrated in the third closest to the vulva, so what good is having a longer penis then? (Except for smacking her in the cervix, ow! Yeah, it’s real fun to have your ob-gyn ask why your cervix looks bruised, and then when you explain how it happened, she looks at you funny and asks if you’re having “rough sex.”)
Most women don’t care about penis size. They care about having a lover who is willing to listen, to try new things.
