Slut = someone easy to convince/not-even-bother-to-have-to-convince, to have sex with.
So, are you or have you ever been a slut?
Me?
In my 20’s…as a young Gay boy, I was pretty much there, did it, and did it again whenever possible. Not picky. Nope.
The fact that I am still alive is somewhat of a miracle, considering the situations I sometimes got myself into, and the diseases that could have ensued. Those days have long since ended, but just wondering…
So…are you or have you ever been a slut?
“Slut” is a really hard word to define. (There’s a mediocre documentary named *Slut *which tries to do that and more. They’re only moderately effective.) Using your definition, I’d wager that any married person is a slut: my husband doesn’t have to work to convince me to have sex with him. I’m easy to convince. So yeah, I’m a slut.
But that’s not really what you meant, is it? I propose a slut is someone who has indiscriminate, unabashed, unashamed sex with multiple partners within a short span of time. All of those, of course, are objective adjectives.
“Indiscriminate” is where I think I lose the slut title. I’ve slept with plenty of men, but I’ve at least made some effort to be discriminating about my partners. I’ve never slept with anyone I haven’t known for some number of months, for example. I’ve never slept with anyone I wasn’t in a one-on-one hanging out or explicitely dating relationship. Some of those were awfully quick relationships, sometimes even measured in days, but I always went to bed expecting either friendship or romance beyond the bedroom.
Yes I have been a slut but I was always careful to sleep with fellow sluts.
I sincerely hope so, but not enough women have tried the convincing part for me to be sure. And I have knocked back offers out of misguided loyalty in the past which must affect my ranking.
It does. Loyalty does not a slut make. Poor you 
I’m not married but I am like this in a relationship.
BF: “You look nice”
Me: pounce
I just really like sex within the bounderies of a safe, loving commitment, what can I say?
Hmm well . .I don’t think so . .maybe . .who knows . .but my wife’s sister once asked me “Ryan, do you consider yourself a man-whore?”. This was because I had dated my wife’s best friend and cousin prior to dating my wife. . .well maybe I am . .not anymore though . . I’m in Iraq and married
First year of college, yes. Who wasn’t? But I, er, learnt my lesson, if you know what I mean.
I did go out once with a girl who had a “slut” label… she had been fairly promiscous in earlier years. it left her with a serious amount of baggage, and our relationship faltered because of it. it’s a shame that the small-town mentality round here wont let someone let go of their past. I wish her the best in her life.
She was really really hot, too.
Yes indeed, and I retain the label to prove it in certain areas of the country. And I certainly did get myself into some dangerous situations…I have tons of great stories, though!
I’ve pretty much backed off on all my serious vices at this point, though. I’m still young, but I figure I have other things to deal with, and there’s no time like the present.
Wow, that’s me. Did you hang out in the Black Angus bar in the late 80’s?
My husband now suffers the “baggage” you mention. I don’t have nearly the drive or desire for it now. Poor guy, he never met the “slut” me. He would’a loved me even more!
No… But I’m starting to wish I had… XXX
Ya’ know maybe this is just a freak occurance on my part:
I’ve date women who dressed conservatively and I’ve dated women who dressed like Paris Hilton. In MY experience, it was always the women who dressed more coservatively who put out more quickly or easier.
As you can surmize from the above; Yes, I was and still am a slut, seeing how I wouldn’t have a problem getting my freak on after the first date. [shrugs]
Interesting observation, SHAKES. That held true for me, I have always dressed in very flattering, yet very conservative clothes (I dress as if I’m going to work all the time, basically). I feel like that somehow worked to my advantage in the slut department, too; like, people would just be disappointed when the girls who dressed less conservatively wouldn’t put out, but they’d be very pleasantly surprised when the prim-and-proper lady, dressed like a young schoolteacher, would walk up and proposition them.
I guess it’s more fun to be a pleasant surprise than either an unpleasant surprise or no surprise at all!
Hey hey hey! Knock it off you guys, you know the rules - do not disclose the demure dresser = hot-to-trot secret. Those disco-bombshell/fern-bar Casanova frustration-laden posture fests that absorb popular media attention while true aficianados of carnal pleasure are getting on with things must not be tipped off to their folly!
Obligatory slut test link.
Granted, this test works better for young folks, IMO, since there isn’t an option to check “Well, yes, but not in the last decade or two” but there it is, anyway.
Okay, your answer is “No.”
I was once, but no longer am a slut. And no, I will not name names, Senator.
Not sure I am a slut as much as I am a predator. That is, I’ve chased after and mostly closed “the deal” with a goodly number of women over the years. Very few of those whom I have slept with (in excess of 80) have ever actually propositioned me which is why I considered myself a predator. Those days, however, are behind me.
Nope. Never been.
Yes, I was. Big time. Thoughout the '90s I chased tail like it was going out of style. There were weeks where I had a different girl every night, all of whom I had met that very night. And some of them weren’t even pig-ugly.
Married now though, and faithful.