Let us stipulate, for the sake of this discussion, that said partner is willing to both give and receive, and that she or he is extraordinarily skilled at giving; and that the relationship is monogamous.
Poll in a moment. It might take two moments, in fact, as I have to think up a wisecrack for the “Fool of a Took!” option.
Since we are both EXTREMELY paranoid about having a child at this time, this is pretty much me right now. I gotta tell ya, it’s actually pretty darn good. Based on the complaints from the neighbors, she likes it too.
ETA: I will be VERY interested to see how this comes out. So to speak.
Okay, that out of the way, to answer Skaldy’s question, my wife is much more into sex than I am, however, when I want sex, I mean penetrative sex. Oral sex just doesn’t do it for me.