This is for both ladies and men.
For ladies:
Do you like giving blow jobs, do they arrouse you? Why ? Or do you give them because your SO enjoys them ?
For men:
Which do you prefer, intercourse of BJs ? Why ?
Just curious.
Thanks
Both feel good, like getting both.
But if it’s either/or, I’d take intercourse. Feels just a little bit better, plus more skin to skin, face to face contact.
Prefer sex.
If I had to choose I’d go with sex. It’s more intimate.
I hate oral sex. If that were the only sex there was, I’d go chaste. I think mouths kind of gross me out. Kissing is OK but I’m not much on tongue kissing and definitely not into ‘dental exam’ kissing. Just the lips.
Absolutely, positively the former. More funner.
You dint ask us about giving the oral, though!
Female here:
Oral sex is only good if you like the person to whom the penis is attached. Love is probably a better choice of words. Or lust. All three are nice.
Answering for hubby:
He likes both. They compliment each other nicely, says he.
Giving a blowjob can arouse me - but mostly because the recipient is enjoying it. Also need to be in the mood for it. The more in the mood for it I am, the better it is for him (at least from the POV I’m sitting at)
Giving oral sex arouses me, and so does receiving. I like intercourse too. If given the choice I would choose intercourse. Although I’d like to have both in the same encounter.
I agree with everything SuperLorie stated. I like it mixed up alittle and include both, in no particluar order.
~t
Another female checking in…
Love giving (and receiving) it must be included in every session. Giving and receiving at the same time is my preference.
Love both, do both…I tend to find that my sex life goes along in stages. For a few weeks it’s nothing but oral, then it changes to intercourse, then hand work and toys, then a period of mixing and matching…However for the past year it has been primarilly oral cuz pregnant/giving birth wifecat just couldn’t handle interior exploration. But we have been getting back into the swing of things recently, so I expect it will be intercourse from here on out for awhile.
As for how we feel about it, she loves my penis- playing with it, kissing it, etc. It’s like her best friend. I, on the other hand, like giving her oral cuz I know she really likes it, not because I really get into it for my own sake. When I’m there, it’s all about her, (and the rewards I get afterwards). 
Sex is fun.
-Tcat
I’m a man.*
I strongly prefer good sexual intercourse to the blow job. Whenever a woman has gone down on me, I’ve had to work hard to keep from being distracted. And I take forever to come that way. I’m always that her neck muscles are going to spasm.
But I love love LOVE to eat the pussy. If I like her, and she’s clean, and she’s appreciative and enthusiastic… oh yeah, I am relentless.
*yes I am, and I can’t help but love you so…
I’ll second that, and I’ll also cast a vote for sex being better than oral, but not by much. (although I may just be saying that because I am currently dating a girl who doesn’t like performing fellatio, so I get none.) Sex itself is much more personal and definitely more mutually stimulating, so it slightly edges out getting oral.
-Dirty
I’d rather give than receive.
One time I had oral sex with a woman & I couldn’t hear her so she had to use her hands.
lol-funny, handy.
Myself, I don’t do either.
Didn’t enjoy either either!
Intercourse, easily.
And with respect to going down, I’d rather do it, than have it done to me.
What weirds me out is when a girl isn’t interested in receiving oral…
Personally, if I’m up for it and the guy enjoys it, I love giving oral. Of course, I also have this itsy-bitsy oral fixation thing… I like having things in my mouth. So far no one has complained…
Of course, I highly enjoy recieving it, too. Off-hand, anyone know if there’s been a “spit or swallow?” poll? (or is that group TMI…)
And as much as I like it… I may not do it much anymore - see this thread for why.
I enjoy intercourse more than bj’s, and I do get very aroused whilst performing oral in my lady.