A couple of questions for straight guys

A bunch of them. I had two brothers and two stepbrothers. Before I got the stepbrothers, my two best friends and I would score a porno tape, somehow, somehow and watch it when we were in junior high and something had to give. Masturbation was the inevitable result and we didn’t care. I had seen them naked many times before. I also witnessed circle jerks during camping trips/all night bonfires although I refused to participate.

I have posted this before and nobody believes it but I will share again. After my high school was obliterated by a massive fire my senior year of high school, everything went to hell and penis contests were quite the rage with judges and everything. Some were shooting for the low side and others for the high side but their were many freak shows taking place to pass the time months before graduation.

I am not sure how you would go through becoming an adult without seeing another erect penis anymore than you could go without seeing your mother, sister, or other female relatives naked at some point.

not seen another guy’s erect penis. Nope.

Seen plenty of peni(ses) in locker rooms, swimming showers/etc… thankfully, none have ever been standing up to salute the flag at any of those times.

So mark me down as another nope.

Circle jerks? Penis contests? Let me guess - British boarding school graduate? :stuck_out_tongue:

Never. Thank God.

Yes, several in fact. The circumstances were pretty much all the same though. We, the group of close friends, were stoned (or otherwise) in our hangout and someone would have their ‘flavor of the week’ with them or just a willing participant was about and would just unzip n whip it out, ya kno, cuz they were horny. According to established protocol, they would go behind the chest freezer, open the lid to block the view and penis would ensue.

At the time, it didn’t really seem all that odd…Kids, drugs impair your judgement.

:slight_smile:

I certainly have. If you spend enough time in Bangkok bars, there’s not much you won’t have seen. I recall this one particularly seedy bar in Patpong II where some guy was doing the girl doggy style across the bar. And I defy anyone to walk into After Skool Bar in Soi Cowboy, especially late at night, and not see someone with his todger out.

Seriously. I’ve seen probably hundreds of penises in locker rooms, while changing on the rugby pitch, while doing naked beer slides, etc. Not once have I seen an erect penis in a locker room. not_alice, are you trying to whoosh by stating that seeing somebody else’s erection in a locker room is an important aspect of socialization? Because it looks like 80% of the straight guys in this thread are missing out, too, by your definition.

But, to the OP, I’ve probably seen half a dozen erect penises. They were all during group sex. Good times.

Dude. No offense but I’m genuinely curious - in what social circles do young guys teach each other about masturbation through demonstration? That wouldn’t have been considered a normal part of growing up by myself or any of my friends (that I know of).

I do remember the first time I heard about masturbation - I was about 8 years old and it was at a friend’s house when there were several boys playing video games. He briefly described what the word meant, some child-like snickering followed, and that was that. There was definitely no demonstration.

Huh, really? When I was in middle school, it was common for some of the boys to hang out at one another’s homes after school, before the parents got home, and watch porn/look at dirty mags, and jerk off together.

Twenty seven years of working in prison means I’ve seen more erect penises than Jenna Jameson.

Never. None of my schools before high school had gym showers. High school did, but almost everyone just waited until they went home. It was an all-guys school, and the general impression was that there was no need to shower after gym, because “Who are you trying to impress?”.

I have occasionally seen other penes in various contexts (showers at camp, for instance), but never really tried to have a good look, and never noticed any erect ones.

If you want to get all Latinate with it, it’s actually penes because the word is not penus. Not that I have any problem with people just saying penises.

Valete,
Vox Imperatoris

ETA: Santo Rugger, I think he was commenting more on the fact that I’ve not seen an unerect penis in a locker room, either.

I have not.

Joe

In all my years in school that has never happened. Jerking off together? That’s kinda gay.

Nope. Come to think of it, the dicks in the locker room in high school are the only ones I’ve seen, and we had PE at the end of the day so showers were fairly rare and I didn’t have to see many.

I may have many regrets in life, but not seeing more than one penis my whole life is not among them.

Actually no.

I was wondering if we were being whooshed by Vox never having seen anyone naked and I just was wondering how he could have missed all those guys in gym class. It was participating in gym class, including changing and showering that I suggested was part of the socialization process.

ETA: I see Vox already clarified that.

I am gay and was homeschooled. I’m glad I missed that particular socialization.

I’m female, but we never showered in gym class. We changed clothes, but showering wasn’t a part of the process. There wouldn’t have been much time for it anyway, I don’t think.

The showering after gym class is not something I think a lot of teenage guys enjoy or feel is an important part of socialization. I remember it as something to be endured and gotten through as quickly as possible.

There was always the one guy that was hung like John Holmes, though. That guy was happy to stay in the shower all day. That was the guy who created life-long self-esteem problems for everybody else.