A Floridian's adventures in NY

Well, I’ve been in NY for 4 days now, 6 to go. Things haven’t been as successful as I’d hoped (in other words, I haven’t found a job or an apartment yet! But I’m still trying… I have interviews lined up all over the place!) But I am having a good time. I’ve learned one thing in particular, though. Do NOT walk around NYC in high heels. Especially with someone over a foot taller than you. That is, unless you like having blisters the size of golf balls on the bottom of your feet! I had two interviews last Friday, and did my whole corporate dress thing… including heels. lurker forgot to mention to me, and I forgot to think, that I might be better wearing tennis shoes and carrying my heels. So, most of the weekend, I’ve been in a state of being barely able to walk! Thankfully, I’ve been several days without interviews, so I had time to recover.

Ok, for those that are interested, things have been going very well (other than the lack of job situation and the little problem at the airport when I left Tampa - they cancelled my flight and I had to fly in to a different airport). lurker’s 130 pound Godzilla dog seems to like me, which was a fear of mine. (She’s even bigger than I imagined!!!) Thursday night was a quiet night for us (long days on both our ends). Friday was a beautiful day spent in NYC, even with my poor blistered feet. We walked around a lot, and sat in several parks. The two that I remember off the top of my head were Washington Square Park, where we had a philosophical discussion, and Union Square Park, where I finally decided that I couldn’t walk any more and could we please take the subway back to the LIRR and head home???

Saturday I made the mistake of meeting a friend of mine in the City and did a lot more walking. I could barely move by the time I got back to lurker’s place, and was fighting the migraine from hell. But a couple Excedrin Migraine, a cold cloth and a 30 minute nap took care of that nicely. Then I had the pleasure of finally meeting Scralden, who spent the night with us on his way through town. He was as wonderful a person as I’d always thought he would be. He also kept his eyes open far longer than I’d expected, considering the drive he’d had to get to us.

Sunday was spent chatting with Scralden before he once more headed on his way and then, after lurker returned home from work, going out to get slaughtered in miniature golf (O, Bill and katie, the game I played in Sarasota? I was 10 times worse. Don’t ask me how, but I was!) And if lurker tries to tell you he can’t play, don’t believe him! Then we went out for a couple of drinks before heading back home.

Today has been spent looking through the paper and calling companies to set up interviews. And tonight I had the pleasure of watching Young Frankenstein for the first time. It was twice as funny as I’d been told. I have about 6 more interviews the rest of this week, and I have two Open Houses to go to tomorrow. I think we have a few other things planned before I head home on Sunday, but I don’t want to jinx any of them happening, so I’ll wait to mention them after the fact.

I don’t know how often I’ll get online to update what the situation is here, but I know I haven’t had a chance to e-mail a lot of people, and I’m sure some people were wondering what was going on, so I thought a post just might do the trick!

In the meantime, wish me lots and lots of luck for these interviews! Being up here and spending even more time with lurker has convinced me even more that this is where I want to be more than anywhere else in the world.

… so far so VERY COOL! Glad the sich is working out, TP, having the dog like you is MUY important. And for the job thingy, that’ll happen, no problem. Glad to hear from you, hon. You sound fairly upbeat (ok, slightly thrilled) and I wish you all the best!

UncleBill

{{{{{{True Pisces}}}}}}}}

I HAVE MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!

Oh do we have to talk M’dear:)

I’m on vacation until Sunday-just hanging out at the hardygrrl haven so drop me a line.
And Am…I’m so happy right now :slight_smile:

If I don’t get back to you right away Falcon knows all…ask her about Thesaurus Boy hehehehehehehehehehe.

{{{{{{Amber}}}}}}}

And I did cast that spell for you :slight_smile:

I am so retarded-well plus someone’s distracting me IYKWIM :slight_smile:

Good luck sweetie and don’t forget to use me a reference…realname,Fraud Analyst II, you know my company name :slight_smile:

Yep, I was wondering how you were doing. :slight_smile:

And yes, I have a LOT to tell you too. I’ll email tonight, babe. Or hell, just call. :wink:

Still sending MUCHOS good thoughts your way…you WILL find a job, and you WILL find an apartment!

Good to hear from you, TP! With the massive wave of positive feelings heading to you from around the world, good things will happen!

It already made a dog friendly; what are the odds of that? :slight_smile:

Good luck to you, my friend.

I’m glad all’s well so far, TP. Keep us updated. Good luck.

Yes, I’d been wondering how the Instructor was doing.

I’ll keep you in thoughts & prayers for success.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Nice to hear from you…

Even nice to hear you are doin all right in general.
Hope all ends perfectly!

blush Well I’ll take your word for it. But really,
I wasn’t always such a wonderful person. I just met
some good friends when I needed them most, and they
helped turn me around. So whatever it is you see in
me, it’s just a reflection of the people I hung around
with.

I’m really sorry about staying up so late, but I
didn’t drive for thirteen hours, to finally meet
the people I’ve known for 3 years, just to collapse
unconscious after saying hello. (even if that
was what my body was begging me to do.)

Maybe I should clarify,
who spent the night with us on his way through town.
I spent that night in the front-room, alone, hiding from
Maggie :eek:, That dog weighs more than I do!!!
I swear she’s a holdover from prehistoric times, and she
didn’t like me. :frowning: No, that’s not quite true, she seemed
to like the way I tasted. double-:eek:

lurker I didn’t expect the accent, apart from that,
you do come across well online and IRL. You are a
genuinely nice guy, and thankyou for letting me stay
in your home. And since you’re about 6" taller than me,
have about 1/3 more weight; most of it muscle, and
Maggie seams to do what you tell her… I don’t think
I’ll be teasing you anymore.

True, hug thank you, for everything.
I’m sorry, I don’t think you telling me “Don’t
worry, everything will go fine.” over and over
all sunday morning must have been very interesting
conversation. But you were right. and at least I
proved that I do, in fact, talk faster than 11 wpm. :slight_smile:

And I will delurk!! promise.

And don’t worry, you will find a job and an apartment.

it’s good to hear that things are working out in ny. i’m sure you will have a job in no time. good luck!

** TP ** why dont ** lurker ** and you just live together. then you wont have to worry about an apartment. I hope you find a job and you are happy up there.

things are going well with me, just might be wedding bells in my near future, so maybe you can attend .:slight_smile:

Thanks, everyone, for the well wishes. I wish I could say they were working well, but…

I’ve gone on several interviews this past week, and while several seemed promising, no one will give me any definite answers. I’ve had to postpone my trip several days (I’ll be leaving for Florida Wednesday morning instead of this morning) because I have a second interview Tuesday afternoon. I haven’t been looking for apartments because I don’t know yet where I’ll be working. Things are getting down to the wire, and they aren’t looking good. So, NY may have to be a dream for me for a little while longer. My biggest fear right now is getting the job but NOT finding an apartment.

As far as lurker and I living together… we’ve both decided that our relationship is a little too new for that right now. We still need our own amounts of personal space. There are a few other considerations as well, but that one tops the list. Congrats, MU, on how well things are going in your relationship. It looks like we both made out lucky in that respect, doesn’t it? :slight_smile:

I’ll try to keep you all posted as more things develop! Thanks, everyone for the well wishes. I just wish right now that some of you were close enough to get some hugs from too. I think I need those just as badly.

As a matter of fact, I think I better make my way over to the pick-me-up thread. That just might do the trick! :slight_smile: