:smack::smack::smack::smack: Somebody stop me!
Because, Marylnshephards, just because. You are exhausting. <HUGE SIGH>
http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/If_it_is_on_the_Internet_it_must_be_true
This says otherwise.
He made it pretty clear that he wants to get down and dirty when we meet. However, I told him that we should meet and hang out for a bit to see how the evening goes. He said sure, its up to me
I have question for guys: When a girl sleeps with you on the first date ,do you lose interest? Do you normally drop her like bad habit? 
For me it always depended on what stage I was in in my life.
If all I was interested in was sex, then I typically didn’t pretense anything with a date, normally it was just a hook-up. I never moved from hook-ups to dating with any of the women I hooked up with.
All of the long term relationships I have been in, started with dates, and getting to know the person first. Sex usually only occurred on the 3rd or 4th date.
Of course. We lose interest in a woman instantly upon ejaculation. The only way to keep a man interested in you is to put off putting out for as long as possible. Preferably until after several years of marriage, and if possibly, forever. That’s how to ensure a man will love you long time.
Unless we’re talking about ampersanal in the ampersass, in which case, what the fasterisk do I know?
How are you a 25 y.o. female and still don’t know the answer to these questions?
I can only conclude you’re gas-lighting everyone.
If it’s a real date, and we end up having sex, that’s fine. I would not drop someone I liked because we had sex on the first date. I have had several relationships that started that way.
I’ve never hooked up with a woman I didn’t know at all with the expectation of sex right off the bat, so I really can’t provide you any insight into what he’s thinking. Telling a woman I want to have freaky sex with them before we’ve even really met is incomprehensible to me, but I guess I’m old school.
Usually the guy just pays her and leaves, never looking back. You sleep with a guy on the first date, he assumes you’ve slept with every guy you’ve ever dated on the first date, and he further assumes that you’re a member of the “working” class. My advice, if you’re really considering meeting his desire for freaky and/or butt sex on the first date, discuss money first, and don’t go any further until you get paid.
Seriously, though, Mary: You’re in charge here. Fuck whomever you want during whatever stage of the dating process you want. It’s your life. You’re the boss. And, being an attractive young woman, you have all the power and hold all the cards. Don’t hand that power over to some dweeb in a Cobalt. And certainly not to us. Make your own decisions. Who cares what a collection of random assholes think?
Do you think Cobalt goes pussyfooting around, thinking: “Ooh, aah, I wonder what she will think of me if I do X, Y, or Z?” Not bloody likely. So why should you? Fuck someone if and when you want to, don’t if and when you don’t.
Ooh, good move! Postpone the date till Friday and let’s all discuss what he’ll think if you sleep with him on the first date. Several more thread pages and increased views – win/win!
I’ve had sex with about 40 women but I’ve only had 3 real relationships.
With the exception of those three, I slept with pretty much all of them on our first date. The three women I had relationships with (and ended up marrying one) was all women who I knew well before we slept together.
You do the math.
Sounds like a plan! Do this.
I might have a sudden engagement in another thread until then, though, so I’m just preregistring my position of “who the hell cares?”, for the record.
This thread will be back on track and debating freaky butt sex again on Friday, right?
Thank you for insights :)Anyways, I am just not sure at this point. I mean I am open to meeting up with a guy ,if the date goes well and it leads to sex then great. But meeting up to just hook up and its bye bye Betty
I am not sure if I should just call it off or go along with and see how it goes
Hehe. Actually I did not have sex with my wife until after we were married. Funny considering I was a total man-whore before that. 
Invent a crisis, like your refrigerator broke or some kind of plumbing issue, so that you cannot meet up for a couple days till you get it straightened out.
I know that the decision is ultimately up to me… I’m just interested in hearing other people’s opinion and insights 
37 women only used you for your body, and didn’t respect you in the morning?
Seriously, though, this whole discussion, here and elsewhere, is giving me a headache. Although that might also be from smacking my head against the keyboard too often. “Oh no! She had sex with me on the first date! I must dump her! Oh no! It’s been three dates and she hasn’t had sex with me yet! I must dump her!”
Apparently, picking the precise moment to have sex with a man to ensure that he thinks of you as exactly the right combination of whore and Madonna is a fine art.
I think I’m with Marlyn. Live life with an open mind and an open heart, and see what happens.
Runs carefree through field of flowers
I just don’t want to end feeling like piece of meet. I have been in FWB before when I wanted more from the guy, but I ended up feeling resentful and used
Fine, go the debating this endlessly for the thread pages and views count route, then. Your call. Whatever makes you feel validated.