So how should I proceed with this?Should I continue to talk and still meet him ?I wont agree to go to his house the first meeting
I’m absolutely certain he doesn’t just want to hook up. Is he about your age? Is he also balding and overweight? His own sex drive has been flagging in recent years, and he’s hoping that if he goes jogging like you do, it’ll improve his libido.
Honestly, you’re reading way too much into his texts: just because a guy asks if you’re a freak in bed and if you like to get fucasteriskked doesn’t mean he’s coming onto you. Sheesh.
Well, what were your answers? Casual opening chit-chat is standard ‘get to know you type stuff’ and I wouldn’t read anything into it at all. I usually use those same questions when I go to a job interview and the interviewer finally asks ‘Now, Is there anything you would like to ask me?’. He sounds like a decent guy who likes to meet new people from the comfort of his vehicle. Lots of notable people have used that same strategy over the years.
I would take the initiative and ask him out before someone else snatches him up. You could host a dinner and movie night at your place (provided you live truly alone). Guys like that usually like action comedy classics from their youth like Se7en or Silence of the Lambs. You can make comfort food like bean casserole and pick up a nice bottle of red wine. If things go well, it will be just like you become a part of him.
Really,what girl knows a Chevy Cobalt from a Chevy Cadaver.
Don’t worry about going to his house, it sounds like he’s married.
LOL, he told me that he lives alone
I’m sure he wouldnt lie about that
You mean -alone- other than the four other women he’s [del]holding captive[/del] dating.
This whole thing is most likely just about Cobalt’s wife recruiting someone for a threesome. One 40 year old fat guy probably isn’t satisfying her anymore, but *two *might just do the trick.
I’m sure it’ll all be cleared up when you go to his house.
He pretty clearly is just looking to get laid. If you’ve got the same objective, continue. If not, tell him you’re not interested and break it off.
Here …now make up the story to go with it.
this.
Do you really need opinions on that?
Ask the guy - you’ve already got his number.
I responded earlier even though I had doubts that your story is real. If your original post is indeed truth - I am now finding the extent of how naïve you are quite laughable.
My story is real.What would I gain by making up story on a message borad?I know my story sounds unsual or odd but its real
FYI: People make up stories here and just about anywhere on the internet.
Not me,i personally don’t see the point.like what I said,why would gain from that?I have better thing to do with my time lol
In what specific way is your story “unusual” or “odd”?
And why join a message board you’ve never posted to before with this particular story?
What advice (read: attention - what are you getting from this?) are you hoping to get here, from complete strangers, that any one of your IRL friends wouldn’t be happy to offer?.. Assuming that this is a true account of events.
Good grief! You can’t possibly be serious with this question.
You’re joking right? How are we supposed to answer that?
Given how he has behaved thus far are you still interested in getting involved with him? Are you interested in just sex? Do you like guys who start asking you if you’re freaky in bed right off the bat? That’s all up to you.