Oh, Linear Crack … I gotta disagree with you on that one…a not-so-freshly-shaved face (talking about a guy’s face here, and I’m bi, fwiw), kinda prickly but still kinda soft … mmmm:) Faces in general (I’m a face guy), but not just lips:)
You are just waiting for the right guy to come along I must assume. To me, liking women (I’m a man) started early and continued on throughout puberty until today. Sure, if I was doing 20 - life, who knows? But a legitimate choice? No way.
You know that arguing that sexuality is a choice cuts both ways, right? We must assume you base your opinion on experience.
As for attacking people who do not threaten you personally. You will need a lawyer, and I hope you get a bad one.
Ah, naah. Ah, naah.
irkenDoom, thank you.
It’s really reassuring to know that all this sound and fury is doing some good. I’m honored to have had the opportunity to help you learn something about us.
Just another to chime in with a big thank you to andygirl for that post. I can relate so well to wanting to change so badly when I was younger but not being able to.
And the only thing I have to say concerning the 19 year old who thinks violence is the only answer is be careful. If you act on your violent desires, you may have the pleasure of experiencing the inside of a jail cell some day.
The only thing that gives me hope is that I have known so many 19 year olds that changed their homophobic views after a few years, ie: they became adults. So there may still be hope for you, especially if you stick and around and actually try to answer some of the questions posed to you. I know it’s hard but you might learn something.
esprix mentioned this in another thread but I think it bears repeating. In my experience, the thing most likely to change a persons negative views about homosexuality is truly getting to know someone that is gay. You just may realize that you actually respect them. I have had many a friend that told me that becoming friends with someone who is gay changed their whole attitude and made them re-examine what they believed.
I had a roommate once who upon learning I was gay, wouldn’t even sit on the same couch as me. A year later, as he was moving out, not only did he give me a card telling me how much my friendship meant to him but he gave me a hug as he was leaving. People can change.