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What, you’re not my friend anymore?
I was NEVER your friend. I don’t like you because you are vicious to people, and then you apologize, minimize, or kiss their ass. I don’t respect you because you lack the courage of your own avowed convictions. .
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Liberal=- I’ll be your freind. And your’s too, Jodi.
You know dudes, some of us here have strong opinions, and when two+ people have stong opinions, there is bound to be disagreement. But in a MB, these disagreements tend to turn towards hate or worse.
Look, friends- once in a while we are just going to disagree and all the debating in the world won’t change that, but name calling and cursing only makes it worse.
Can’t we just agree to disagree? Sure, I disagree with Liberal (a lot
) and with Jodi too. But I am mature and even minded enough not to convert that disagreement into dislike or hatred.
If you are a regular poster here, one who contributes- one who answers hard questions in GQ or gives good advice in IMHO or a shoulder to cry on in the PIT, or cute pet pics in MSPIMS or spiffy cites in GD - then, you* are* my friend. Even though we may disagree. Hell, I disagree strongly and often with Diogenes the Cynic- but I still admire his many contributions and have had fun in some of my debates with him. So- DtC is also my board friend.
In fact, that was my complaint about Badchad- he *never *“contributed”. Anywhere. At all. All he had was a drum with one stick and a hard-on for Polycarp. And, Polycarp is also my friend (or at least I consider him so)
Look dudes- I don’t know if Liberal did the right thing here or or not. But he has made some mighty fine contributions over many long years. I have had some satisfying (and not so satisfying) debates with him. He’s smart, he debates well, he contributes.
Ok, so you may think what Lib did here with this “bribe” is cheap and sleazy. Well, that’s fine, that’s your opinion. But can’t you just agree to disagree with Lib on this? Must this turn to hate?
And, when you do decide that someone has acted badly in a thread or is so damn fucking wrong it hurts- can you leave that aside for the next thread, OK? Don’t carry over grudges. Who knows- you may disagree 100% with Lib here but find yourself nodding in agreement at his comments in another.