andrew85, I am a 37 year old female.
I am MORE than familiar with my body. I write about sex, sexuality and knowing your body and playing safely for a living. I have a vagina, I was outraged by your level of misinformation and even thought it had been covered, I felt it needed to be covered again because - like it or not as past posting shows - sometimes you don’t get the message first time around.
I likely know a lot about anal sex and could’ve answered the OP with some really solid information, but you’d already derailed it by then, and I was convinced you needed some schoolin’ about the female anatomy before you explore anything that folks might call “alternative” sex or play. Unless you’re gay, in which case, good on ya, but I still think you need a human sexuality class because your basic level of misinformation is absolutely frightening.
I have no beef with anyone sincerely trying to learn something, but when you make statements like you did which need no repeating here that were so misguided, so wrong, and so painfully ignorant, you really put my back up in a lather. That kind of misinformation can be dangerous not only for you, but anyone you become involved with. In my book, such a frightening level of willful ignorance equates with idiocy. (hint - Wikipida, despite many claims by the scientific community as to it’s scientific information veracity, is NOT a good source for sex information. May be a nice place to start but there are better resources.)
Do yourself and any potential mates a favor and become educated - hell, even read a few books that I would be happy to recommend that address the topics and are fun and sexy to read.
Apology accepted, but I learned my lessons LONG ago - and sometimes they were painful ones. But I learned 'em.
And - just for the record - my mother works for the church. And has almost my entire life, either teaching, or within the administration of a see or overseeing the funds for an archdiocese. If she was ever on a street corner, it was because she was ringing a bell for Salvation Army or raising funds for a church benefit. She would forgive you for what you said, because she is a good woman who believes in forgiveness.
I, however, am not so active in the church these days and likely will not be so forgiving next time. If you found me preachy, I apologize, but it’s my job to educate people on these topics. Insult me all you want - I’m an adult and I said what I said, but insulting my family really shows a lack of imagination.
Take the advice of others here and stop tilting at windmills, already. You’re doing yourself no favors, and I have no honest desire to see you flame out, but you’re walking the line. Step back from it and honestly look at some of the advice you’ve been given - a lot of it has MUCH merit.
Good luck.
Inky
