My post was silly and stupid and only meant to be whimsical, I obviously failed
He started this thread, it was not a member pitting him
I and many others did try to give him polite advice in this thread and other before the suspension. He has ignored the friendly advise and only responded to bad.
His comments about Inky’s Mom pushed me over from keeping an open mind to he is just an ill mannered idiot or he is seeking attention.
I never called for his banning, just an apology to Inky and to slow down on his starting threads.
That is my answer, other will of course have their own.
Drops feathers and keels over, laughing.
I don’t think he should be banned. I think he needs to cool it a bit. Maybe more than a bit. He sounds so young and immature–and time will take care of some of that. If it were up to me, and thank god it’s not, I would let him be. His “peers” here are capable of keeping him in line. And maybe he will turn out to be an asset to the bb. Who knows?
But I can also see the rationale for a banning as well. Life is tough-you pays your money and you takes your chance.
I’m about to unsubscribe from this thread right after posting this (because it’s only going to continue with noise and joking), but before I do, I’ll add
1.) I continue to get the advice to ‘listen to others,’ and this is based, I argue, not on the fact that I don’t ever listen, but that sometimes the important stuff needs to sink in. I now know:
When not in the Pit, if someone insults you, just hit the report button. If that person really pisses you off somehow, Pit them. *
I internalized this rule into rule form. I’ve done a lot of that- you say I don’t listen, when in actuality I have written down every important thing I’ve learned here, similar to the above. If you’d like the proof, e-mail me asking for it, and I’ll copy paste it from the word document as send you a copy.
2.) What the one poster said of this place being ‘snarky’ and jumping on people for being ignorant in areas instead of informing them (thanks for your comments)?-
EXACTAMUNDO.
Believe it or not, you guys would rather jump onto someone with snarky comments than educate them. You say you’re here for ‘fighting ignorance,’ but the truth is more like: ‘Jumping on what we see as the ignorant, while ignoring what anyone else has to say in a thread, while offering information that’s mostly WAGs or for the purpose of impressing others; all the while spending most of our time on the Dope trolling for trouble going down so we can pile on that person in the Pit.’
3.) One poster said that what I said of the vagina was cruel and deragatory of women (and was intended as such): what I said of the vagina was inside of a comparison, and had nothing to do with any of that.:
As the one poster said (thanks for your comments), a dozen people felt great jumping on my comments, some with insults, rather than just educate me or correct me.
To sum it all up:
1.) I needed to learn the above *-ed fact
2.) This board jumps onto people with snarky, hurtful comments regardless of which forum they are in, and most users spend most of their time trolling for shit going down so they can get a comment in, but you won’t acknowledge it because it’s become so normal to you by now. I’m unsubscribing now- you can talk about me all you want- and in the future, *the only criticisms I want to hear are ones that get straight to the point, WITHOUT SNARKINESS OR JOKES OR FLUFF POSTS, just like the -ed one above, so that I can simply learn, rather than wade through page after page of the rest of the shit (such as contained in this thread). Unless your advice is in clear, non-snarky form, separate from threads full of pages of the above shit, I will not read it.
I just find it strange that he took notes and managed to forget that he was the OP and he could ask for it to be closed.
It also amazes me he still hasn’t apologized to Inky, Hopefully I just missed that part somewhere.
You are not melting down because you were never solid in the first place. You are completely liquid already. You’re more liquid than Bill Gates’s checking account. You’re more melted than a hosed-down witch. You’re more liquid than a toilet bowl at a Mexican restaurant. You exist on the side of the phase transition line where can be found no stones, no trees, no solid objects of any kind. You are the towers of Chernobyl, you are an ice cube on the Devil’s desktop, you are an ingot in a blast furnace, you are a gallon of latex splashing freely into a dildo mold. If you were any more fluid, you would dissipate like Keyser Soze wafting out of a customs agent’s office.
And Jesus Jumping-jack Christ, we wish you would do exactly that.
BoneyKing, he’s a lost cause. In ten years, he’ll be exactly the jackass he is today. He doesn’t deserve your defense.
Fuck off, andrew. Fuck the fuck off, you fucking fuck.
No, there’s a pattern here. We’ve had several very intense half-apology posts from Andrew, full of ideas about what he’s going to change and how it would be easier if we were just NICE TO HIM!!! I’ll admit, I thought things were getting better when he stopped with the bright giant orange font and gratituous smilies, but the rest of the post content hasn’t changed.
Andrew, you don’t like the way people respond to you. We’re not going to change. Why are you contributing to a message board whose posters, mods, and rules you don’t like or agree with?
EddyTeddyFreddy, I’d pay good money to read a forum like that.
Look at it like feral cats. “They’ve” (whoever they are) have found that if a population of feral cats is completely removed, a new group invades. The best solution is to neuter the cats and then let them loose in their home turf.
Now, I am not advocating the neutering of the OP in any way. I’m just saying that if it’s not him, it’ll be someone else. This version of young, arrogant and opinionated seems to be fairly docile (the nastiness to ink aside-and he did apologize).
(And apropos of nothing in particular, I once heard a girl comment that the clitoris was the most sensitive part of the vagina; another, complaining of sexual harrassment, claimed a coworker in a back room tried to “rub her vagina” through her clothes; and a third was embarrassed when a friend’s dog tried to “smell her vagina”.)
I blame the sorry state of education these days. The country is full of people who can’t distinguish between “their”, “there”, and “they’re” and who think any word ending in ‘s’ takes an apostrophe. In this light it isn’t surprising that so many people confuse vagina with vulva – or seem to think that they’re interchangable.