This popped up in my Facebook feed [ellipses and caps as quoted]:
I understand the sentiment. I miss my dad terribly. I miss our cat Creamsicle, who died in June. To me ‘grieving’ is more than simply feeling a loss. ‘Grieving’ is actively missing someone. While everyone gets over loss differently, it seems to me that there is a time to just get over it. To dwell on a loss is unhealthy and counterproductive. Feel the loss. Mourn the loss. But remember that your life continues.