Not sure if you’re still wanting votes, but **Litespeed **and I had no dancing at our reception. I was a bit worried about it, but then I realized that there wasn’t too much about our reception that was conventional (we’re both women and my dress was black), so who cares? She had sent me a love song every day while we were dating, so we loaded those up on the iPod and played that. Have someone come set it up well before you get there, though. She had it with her and got stuck in traffic, so I was entertaining early guests with no music for 10 minutes that seemed like an eternity, ugh!
Really, I don’t think anyone even heard the songs because everyone just talked and drank and ate. We had gotten married privately a couple weeks before, so I put a scrapbook together of pictures of that and everyone seemed to like looking through it (just a suggestion). I think Tori’s a fine choice for a wedding reception. 
We did everything we wanted to do for our wedding/reception and not one thing we didn’t. It was GREAT.
I have only been to one wedding, out of 6, that did not have dancing. It was also one of the two best weddings I have been to. The non-dancing wedding was held in the backyard of my church when I was a child. There was lots of food and mingling but the only music was provided by a string quartet of congregation members so there really was not any dancing. The other one was my cousins wedding where people sat around talking and ignoring the DJ until he put on some SOCA and then all of the old folks sprinted to the dance floor. (The bride’s side was from Trinidad and my side is Bahamian). That was fun because it looked like the entire reception got up to dance.
When I first read the OP I cringed because the worst wedding that I went to was in this giant reception hall with a crappy DJ and no dancing. I think it’s a waste of money to rent a giant hall and pay for a DJ when you have zero expectations of guests dancing. You do not have a dance floor, however, so there is no problem. If people want to dance badly enough, then they will find a way. Enjoy your day and congratulations!
I have actually on 2 occasions specifically avoided attending a wedding because I heard there WOULD be dancing. I don’t dance, I don’t like to dance, and I’ll be damned if I’m going to waste my Saturday being pressured to do something I don’t want to do.
I did send a card though.
There was no dancing either at my wedding or at my brother’s wedding. I had a fine time at both of them. There was very little drinking, either (although alcohol was available). We had a few short speeches, eating, and mingling. I see nothing wrong with that. I can’t imagine why anyone would have been offended.