I went with the Vivaldi in the end, and it was lovely. The Diana Ross for the recessional turned out to be an inspired choice - suited the mood perfectly, and inspired my mum to dance down the aisle after us!
If anyone’s interested, there’s a thread with link to photos on the Nads board.
Thanks for all your suggestions, everyone. Crusoe and I really did have the most perfect day!
That’s great, Jenny! What a lovely couple you two are. I love the colour of your wedding dress - mine was ivory, but your slightly darker colour would have been much better on this brunette - I wish I’d thought of that! Congratulations!