This is a poll for heterosexual men and lesbian women who have had their fare share of female sexual partners
A non-trivial percent of women are unorgasmic (12% if this citeis correct)
Have you noticed any correlation between ability to orgasm and being a pleasant person (vs being bitchy)?
I voted “no correlation.” My experience has been varied so I don’t believe there is a correlation.
I don’t get to know unpleasant women well enough to find out whether they shake the bed at night.
Trotting out the hoary old misogynistic stereotypes, take 320,138,243!
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I don’t get to know unpleasant women well enough to find out whether they shake the bed at night.
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What he said (I voted “other”)
I’m curious as to how you would know.
After all, just because a woman doesn’t have an orgams with (general) you, doesn’t mean she can’t at all.
I’m not really sure what the question is. Who are women who can’t orgasm? Those who try and try but never get there (yet keep on trying while having sex with you)? People like my dear old great aunt who lived their lives with bastard husbands and died thinking orgasms were a myth? Those who can get off just not with you (the poll taker)?
I know it happens, but it seems a bit sad to continue having sex with someone who’s never had an orgasm. If the journey feels good, sure, but I’m not sure I could keep that up.
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I don’t get to know unpleasant women well enough to find out whether they shake the bed at night.
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This.
Are you claiming that there are no women who are truly anorgasmic (that is, will not orgasm no matter what)? I’ve always thought that it was accepted that a certain percentage of women was like that (Wikipedia entry on anorgasmia)
Are you saying that if you were a man and the woman who was with you was anorgasmic you would eventually dump her?
Gee, no wonder they’re unpleasant.
Oh, never mind…
No, no, I was asking the OP to clarify what he meant. How many people know their partner is actually anorgasmic (can’t orgasm, ever)? I imagine it depends on the length of their relationship and their previous sex life.
If 10 percent of women have never climaxed in their life, I’m curious how old they are (and if they ask again later on). SSRIs are one thing, but as I mentioned, it’s not unheard of for some women (and men) to never truly try, because masturbation and non-missionary sex is dirty.