I’m so disappointed with this situation that I can barely work up any vitriol.
I grew up in a very, very rural part of south Georgia. The town I grew up in had a population of about a thousand. The town where I went to school, just down the road, was somewhat larger but not a sprawling metropolis by any means. It was the sort of place where people had enough spare car parts on their lawn to build a fresh armada, but lacked the motivation and sobriety to cut the grass around them to take inventory.
There was a very, very sweet lady who taught at my middle school who I hadn’t thought of for years who, apparently, hasn’t been feeling well. She had been going to doctors for the past five months in this rural little podunk shithole who just couldn’t figure out what was wrong with her. This was the area she grew up in, and she trusted those doctors, so it took ages and ages for anyone to convince her to go down to Jacksonville, Florida (the nearest big city) to see a “big city doctor.” That was on a Wednesday.
Thursday, the tests were conclusive for advanced leukemia. The doctors told her to go home and get on hospice immediately.
She died Sunday.
I’m not a doctor, nor do I have any medical training, but…I just don’t understand. How do you go for months and months with worsening leukemia and nobody catches it? How fucking incompetent do these doctors have to be to miss it? It took someone less than an hour’s drive away a FUCKING DAY to figure it out!
Two years ago, my dad wasn’t feeling well. He had grown up in Woodbine, Georgia and trusted the local doctors, so it took months and months for us to convince him to go see a big city doctor. When he did, he was diagnosed with Stage IV cancer. He died two months later. Almost identical situations. I wonder if my dad might still be alive if the doctors in my home town weren’t so blindly stupid.
Guess I’ll never know. Neither will my teacher’s family. RIP, Mrs. Thompson. RIP, dad. And to the worthless MDs in Woodbine, Kingsland, and St. Mary’s Georgia that didn’t see anything, even after it was too late - thanks for nothing.